I find myself less interested in whether or not something is a recession or not. I mean, sure, the numbers of the economy are going down, but the big numbers don't necessarily mean much for anyone's personal life. Of course it can; losing your job is no fun. But the big reason why the Great Depression was so bad, is that we didn't have any social security back then. Unemployed meant having no income at all. No health…
You seem to think that being poor in a first world country is just skipping few vacations and luxury items but otherwise life can be wonderful. I think you severely underestimate how poor people can get even in countries with strong social security, like the nordic countries.
Also the idea that misery is mostly political decision sounds just silly. Most of Europe hardly recovered from 2008 financial crisis and are already cracking under the demographic shift, baby boomers retiring. Add a covid depression into the mix and things can get really bad. There's just not enough money in the economy to share for both the retirees and a large number of unemployed. This can cause a vicious cycle as the increasing social spending will increase taxes, increased taxes will go to increased labour cost, increased labour cost will drive down demand on European goods increasing the unemployment even more etc...
There's always a cynic to rain on your optimism :)