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Commutes also cost the one thing we can't get back; time.
Sometimes people say they're making a time trade off for more money, and plan to use that money to buy more time. While money is fungible, time is not. You can't buy more time with your kids while they're young if they're already grown. You can't buy more time with someone who has passed away. And you can't buy your way out of missed opportunities in your personal life, once they've gone they're gone.
I remember traveling abroad, spending the night at hostels, waking up at 5AM and hitting tons of museums and walking miles and miles per day to sight see, and visit everything. 65 years old will probably not be able to pull that off