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You don't have to understand my preferences. All you need to do is try to respect my right to decide for myself what is best for me. Thinking you have a superior answer for my life after reading a couple of comments by me on the Internet and saying I should move to another country because you don't understand my choices is beyond insulting.
Just trying to help. Sorry if it sounds wrong way.
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/StopHelpingMe
But thank you for the apology. It's a step in the right direction.