Some geeky types will be tempted, upon founding a startup, to thus not have ANY women in significant roles in the company, and to keep it as guys-only as possible; outsourcing as needed and doing the other legal legwork as required to stay under the headcount (is it >50 people?) to avoid the EEOC.
I'll be more than tempted. To be 100% honest, I have that thought every single time I read any article or blog post about sexism in tech. If programmers with a Y-chromosome are exponentially less likely to either sue us or get us labelled sexist jerks in the press, then that's who we're hiring.
Julie Ann Horvath Describes Sexism and Intimidation Behind Her GitHub Exit
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#262Earlier quoted context omitted.
I, as a male, try to avoid staring at another female because I fear someone like Horvath accuses me of sexism. This is, sadly, the best thing to do because you don't know who is going to take offense. PS: To avoid looking one-sided and narrow (which I believe I'm not) I really feel bad about this whole situation and the lady who had to go through that. Personally liked a github as a company.
And I, as a male, try not to stare at anybody because I'm not a fucking asshole.
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#263Earlier quoted context omitted.
I, as a male, try to avoid staring at another female because I fear someone like Horvath accuses me of sexism. This is, sadly, the best thing to do because you don't know who is going to take offense. PS: To avoid looking one-sided and narrow (which I believe I'm not) I really feel bad about this whole situation and the lady who had to go through that. Personally liked a github as a company.
And I, as a male, try not to stare at anybody because I'm not a fucking asshole.
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#264Until there's a second side to this my GitHub use is not going to continue. Sad to see this happen, but it's not hard to change origins on my repos to BitBucket or Gitlab. edit: and again, it's two commands to push my repo back. but i have no interest in being with github at this time
But why? Despite it's dubious origins, Github remains an excellent / superior product. One may not agree with the way they do things (and even that seems to be some, not everyone in the organization), but is that really a reason to stop using the product? https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/genetic
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#265What should Github do? My take: The founder leaves, at least for six months, and his wife has no further involvement ever. The clueless spurned programmer leaves, at very least works from home for six months or more but is preferably publicly fired. His behaviour is unacceptably unprofessional and as good as he might be it's not good enough to destroy a culture. The entire team (and many commenters here need this too…
I also agree with the posts above saying that a change in structure is needed. After a certain size, companies are like mini-states - they need strong institutions and establish a "rule of law" via standard practices in order not to become dystopias.
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#267Earlier quoted context omitted.
> Why are you making excuses for these people? What purpose does it serve? Because I think people should question whether they're overreacting to the situation. > I'm especially shocked to see you trivialise the actions of the jilted engineer I edited to clarify this. Careful reading shows that: (1) It is possible that there were legitimate technical reasons for the reverted commits. (2) It is possible that Github di…
> I think it is difficult to say that Github is at fault from the information given, and I fear that's the conclusion that many were jumping to. Don't worry. Read the whole thread on this discussion. The only people who are jumping to conclusions are those assuming there is something wrong with Horvath's story. I have thought carefully about the article, and this is my conclusion: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id…
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#268As usual, another HN thread that perfectly exemplifies victim blaming and a collective burying of heads in the sand. There's a few people on here who seem to get it, but most don't. I'm sick of it. Goodbye, Hacker News.
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#269I don't think this was an instance of institutionalized sexism. Rather, the founder's wife seems like an unbalanced individual, and nobody effectively set any boundaries. The other founders and HR seemed unaware or unable to set the situation to right. As for her romantically inclined co-worker -- I don't see how his behavior qualifies as sexist or hostile. Merely a bit clueless, but isn't it to be expected that empl…
You're missing the point. From this story alone, it seems the company is run by individuals who never mentally developed out of high school. Those incidents you mentioned are merely a red flag of the immaturity of some of these people. Awkwardly hitting on an employee to a point of discomfort, messing with someone's work cause they turned you down to a date, creepily staring at an employee in the gym; you should at l…
That's not what the article says:
> The final straw for Horvath came when she saw men gawking at women who were hula-hooping at the office. [...] Two women, one of whom I work with and adore, and a friend of hers were hula hooping to some music.
Emphasis on at the office. It sounds like they were making some kind of show. While I agree that the rest of the story sounds like a massive clusterfuck, I can't understand what is supposed to be wrong in this episode.
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#270> Horvath then told her partner, also a GitHub employee... Protip: don't dip your pen in the company ink.
Everyone says this because it sounds obviously simple. It's complete BS though. You spend 2/3'rds of your working life at work . The people you socialize, interact with and share common challenges are at work. Unless you meet your partner in college, or high school or happen to have enough time in a shared extra-curricular (which a lot of us don't ) then where exactly are you going to meet people at all. Moreover, no…
Expecting her to reject potential stable long term relationship just because the guy has the same employer does not sound reasonable to me. Plus, we do not even know whether they started to be together before she joined the company.