I'm rather introverted and I very much don't want help from employees in stores. So much so that stores lose sales from me, and I wonder how many sales across the board stores are losing. The other day I went into an Apple store to consider getting an iPad Mini. I was immediately approached by an employee who very eagerly wanted to show me how light it is, how beautiful the screen is, etc. I told him I really just wa…
I've considered just answering with "fuck off" whenever somebody comes up to me unasked, but I'm just not rude enough.
Can I help you? Why retail customers always say No
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Re: Can I help you? Why retail customers always say No
#72My student job was working at a bookstore. Our customers are a special breed, I think, but there are some generalisations that can be made.
I sometimes heard (albeit very rarely) my coworkers ask "Fiction or nonfiction?" But that didn't necessarily increase sells from our observation and discussions we had about this approach. But some supervisors pushed this concept to "get the conversation going". Truth is, you need to be yourself when facing a customer. There are as many different customers as there are personalities in a workplace.
It's true that it depends on your customer. But most of them want to be left the heck alone. So what approach worked for me?
Asking a casual, open-ended question or making a comment about them. This allowed me to gauge whether this person wanted help or not. It worked most of the time. It's all about making the customer feel comfortable with you.
Casual questions/comments I would say:
1. Oh! I've heard a lot of good things about that book. Apparently [insert author/interesting book fact that doesn't reveal much of it]
2. Hey, how's it going?
3. Jesus, is it still pouring out there?
4. Hey, watchoo lookin for?
5. Okay, it looks like you are trying to find something (when they appear lost and are going in circles in place)
6. Hi. (simply acknowledging them -- you can tell they don't want to be talked to if they act distracted, make an effort to avoid eye contact or walk busily/quickly away from you)
In the end, every customer will find an answer to get out of any question, full stop. So don't try to fake it.
If they are already holding a book, that is the easiest target, because you can make assumptions about that person and start a genuine conversation.
Another is actually a close-ended question:
*What section are you looking for?
The trick there was the follow-up comment/question. Say they said "history". Okay. "Oh, the new Trudeau biography just came out and the biographer had a bunch of access to documents and files which no other person has ever looked at".
If they said "Not sure". A chuckle then "Is it a gift or for a special occasion?" Sometimes customers don't know what they are looking for, actually. You need to have an honest demeanour. In the end, I was always honest with the people I dealt with and had people visit me to talk to me. Probably half of us had degrees or were in the process of getting degrees so we had our own specialisations. I had a bunch of people who remembered me and we would recommend books to each other and just chat. I spoke for a couple of hours to customers about philosophy or Latin American literature and history. A few were extremely impressed with my knowledge and the same occurred with my other coworkers.
This building of rapport is the best thing, I think. Almost like selling is an afterthought. Humanising the transaction is better, I think. And something that I feel is lacking in a lot of customer service. We're all humans. All of us have our bad days.
If there was a customer looking for something I had no idea of, I'd think of someone who did know. And would tell them honestly, "Actually, I have no idea about that, but I think my other coworker might. Let me call her/him". If no one knew, which happened sometimes, we would try to help them the best we could. In a lot of these cases, we had no solution. But the customer was happy that we at least tried.
If we never stocked a particular book, we'd recommend them to another bookstore. We had a binder filled with different bookstores. Most were surprised we did this.
Despite all of this, this bookstore is one of the most hated in the city I lived in (if not the entire country). Poor management, too bureaucratic, and old habits. Plus, inconsistency between other locations (it is a chain bookstore).
The absolute worse thing about working there had to be PROMOS, as in, the giving out of flyers/coupons. Very, very, very, very few people like being handed stuff. And many customers knew we suffered (they could see it in our faces), so a minority took them out of sympathy. The biggest problem with this was that when giving the flyer there was an unspoken time frame to hand and explain the promotion. And this time frame was about 5 seconds or less, and usually there was a caveat to a promotion that required more time to explain, because it seemed like the nature of marketing was to purposefully create convoluted/complicated scenarios where the promotion would apply.
Anyway. My two cents. Sorry, it was an unabridged/unedited and not proofread response.
Re: Can I help you? Why retail customers always say No
#73Earlier quoted context omitted.
I would, of course, reply to "Are you after pants or tops today" with, "I'm a man, you idiot, I don't wear 'tops', I wear shirts"
No sweaters, coats, hoodies, or anything else on your torso which isn't usually called a shirt?
* winter over-shirt
* shirt with integrated hat
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#74Earlier quoted context omitted.
The cynic in me says that he's hoping you'll screw it up worse so that they can charge more to fix what you broke in the process.
Probably not. He's not likely to go back to the same shop if he screws it up.
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#75Earlier quoted context omitted.
I have the same goals as you (find the stuff I want, pay for it, and get out), but that's why I seek out the salespeople! I feel that assistants aren't really there to help me; they're there to maximize profits for their employer. Help me find these employees! I joke, but seriously - I usually get great recommendations from the staff, often brutally honest. I find people don't give flippant recommendations, as its a…
I went to Sears two days ago for a brake inspection. The guy quoted $700. He pulled me off to the side and said, 'buy the parts for $100 and we will charge $300 for labor. Quote around for better prices, or you might be able to do the labor yourself, so, give that a try too and just bring it in if all else fails.' My memorial day weekend is going to consist of attempting these repairs, but thanks to him, I may become…
Get a service manual if you can (Haynes is kind of the gold standard here). It'll walk you through, step-by-step, whatever it is you're trying to do.
Re: Can I help you? Why retail customers always say No
#76Unless your store is gargantuan, I'm perfectly able to find things myself and I don't want your annoying "sales associates" hovering around like mosquitoes.
People give the "No, thanks" response because salespeople are universally irritating.
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#77Earlier quoted context omitted.
As a non-commissioned retail salesperson in a previous life, giving honest and helpful recommendations and trying not to annoy people that don't need help, was the only pride to be found in that work. Not everybody is an introvert, and some people do want help but are too afraid to ask. Although I suspect that for each of those there are three people that would just like to shop on their own. It's also important to n…
I don't normally want any assistance, except when I do, and then I do. The generic phrases "Can I help you?" or "Can I help you find something?" are perfectly fine, contrary to the article. These are standard prompts to which I give standard replies. Much, much worse is "Are you after pants or tops today?" which is the worst kind of sleazeball sales opener. Now I'm on guard, preparing to either fend off a hard sell o…
This, exactly. In the US, car dealers have a pretty poor reputation, because people generally believe that the salespeople are especially trained to trick/beguile/confuse shoppers, in order to maximize the dealers profit. In turn, I think many people dread buying a car from a dealer.
Do you really want people to view your operation in the same light as a car dealer?
Re: Can I help you? Why retail customers always say No
#78Maybe I'm a minority (though not in here, I'm sure) as I'm a bit of an introvert but I strongly prefer to browse on my own. Whenever I am asked something "clever" like suggested in the article, I get annoyed because I feel like I'm being manipulated.
The worst is salespeople who ask questions, but don't actually know their product any better than I do. Car salesmen almost always fall into this category. Same thing at most of the big-box retailers (Best Buy, Target, etc).
But, if a salesperson actually knows their stuff and wants to help, I'm usually quite happy to let them. The local Nordstrom (department store) is good at this. As is the local bicycle shop.
It really comes down to selling an experience as well as a consumer product. I'll happily pay a bit of a premium for a good shopping experience.
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#79Earlier quoted context omitted.
I've considered just answering with "fuck off" whenever somebody comes up to me unasked, but I'm just not rude enough.
They're just doing their job though. Even when telemarketing was common I never felt that was an appropriate response.
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#80When I managed a retail store (ages ago), I would take a clipboard, get near the customer as if I was checking inventory, then wait a moment. If they didn't ask anything, I would turn away, then look back briefly and say "Let me know if I can help you find anything."
It worked amazingly well for a 6'2" athletic build guy like myself. Other approaches failed pretty badly (partly because of my intimidating size to some).
It let me sense how comfortable people were with me near their space, and customize how "nonchalant" I needed to be in asking if I could help them find anything. All in all, a way to enter people's space with them feeling comfortable having me there.