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Re: Fork My Dongle

#181
Let's not make this OK. How is this supporting anything ? It was offensive and still is.

Here is why some males think it's a funny word.

Slang; see penis. Often used to describe a large penis, it can also be used to describe a "average-sized" one or a small one.

Re: Fork My Dongle

#182

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I'm not sure why it's cowardly to suggest that. Could you elaborate? I thought it was good advice. If inflammatory comments are even possibly leading to death threats (and it seemed to me like they might be), it's probably a good idea to not post inflammatory comments. I mean, surely nobody wants to receive death threats. Are you saying that his/her comments are not inflammatory? My standard for cowardly posting is v…

> If inflammatory comments are even possibly leading to death threats (and it seemed to me like they might be), it's probably a good idea to not post inflammatory comments. That's 'victim blaming' and fairly inflammatory. That's not your intent. It's no different then telling women not to wear provocative clothing if they don't want to be raped (And before people suggest it, I'm not equating rape to anything here). B…

> That's 'victim blaming' and fairly inflammatory.

That's ridiculous. If I play in a busy street everyday, you'd blame me when I eventually got hit by a car even though cars are always supposed to be driven under control. There are actions that victims take that increase or decrease their chances of being victimized.

> it's no different then telling women not to wear provocative clothing if they don't want to be raped (And before people suggest it, I'm not equating rape to anything here).

What about if it is telling women to go out with their friends and look after each other when they are at bars? To be aware of their surroundings? Is that victim blaming to prepare your daughter for the realities of the world?

Re: Fork My Dongle

#183
post #181

Let's not make this OK. How is this supporting anything ? It was offensive and still is. Here is why some males think it's a funny word. Slang; see penis. Often used to describe a large penis, it can also be used to describe a "average-sized" one or a small one.

A childish sense of humour is not the exclusive domain of men, fwiw.

Re: Fork My Dongle

#184
post #44

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I'm sorry you feel that way. There was really no intention to be mean spirited. As a software engineer myself I definitely want to see more women in tech. I've seen a lot of interest in the donglegate story over the last couple of days and just saw an opportunity to shift focus onto a worthwhile cause.

"Male geeks are sad, fragile virgins." Hey! I'm sorry if that made you feel uncomfortable. There was no intention to be mean spirited!

I'm a male geek, and was a virgin too once, I'd buy that shirt just because it makes me laugh.

People need to lighten up a little and not read so much into everything overall.

Re: Fork My Dongle

#185
post #133

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Why? (not why as "I don't see anything wrong" but why as "I really don't know, please explain")

Fork = Fuck Repo = Vagina A woman walking around with a metaphoric "fuck my vagina" shirt is asking to be hit on and told dirty jokes. It would be like a straight man going into a gay bar with a shirt that says "My backdoor is open".

How did you get vagina from repo?

Re: Fork My Dongle

#186
post #181

Let's not make this OK. How is this supporting anything ? It was offensive and still is. Here is why some males think it's a funny word. Slang; see penis. Often used to describe a large penis, it can also be used to describe a "average-sized" one or a small one.

offensive != wrong

Re: Fork My Dongle

#187
post #80

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So, to be clear, unlike submitted link's teespring payment arrangements (100% of proceeds will be donated to Girls who Code), 100% of proceeds on your link will be going to your pocket. Not knocking on you, just making it clear you hold no affiliation to the 'Girls who Code' organization as well.

Why should we care about donating money to Girls who Code? I'm not a girl and I don't see any reason why I should support them, particularly when the only time I hear anything about girls who code is when they're causing some drama. You know what girls who code should do? They should write code and be humble instead of forming a group called Girls Who Code in order to get attention and hand-outs. To be clear: I'd rat…

You know who the target of Girls who Code are? Girls. Actual girls. Not ``going to meet some girls''(women) girls. Children. Teenagers.

Teenagers who, by culture, are reluctant to approach Computer Science and other technical fields. This education group is trying to reverse this trend.

RTFWebsite next time.

Re: Fork My Dongle

#188
post #126

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Exactly. It's just a reference to an unfortunate series of events that won't be worth explaining in a month. Make it 'Fork My Repo' and I'm a buyer.

Fork my repo and leave my dongle alone?

If you let me touch your dongle, I'll let you fork my repo

Re: Fork My Dongle

#189
post #133

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Why? (not why as "I don't see anything wrong" but why as "I really don't know, please explain")

There's a certain type of guy who will use anything about a woman that appears vaguely sexual to a) assume she's "up for grabs" and hit on her/make inappropriate remarks since they feel she's given permission and b) call the same woman a slut and similarly-toned remarks if she tells them that, no, she's not really appreciative of being treated like a sex vending machine.

That's what she said.

Re: Fork My Dongle

#190
post #98

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Exactly. It's just a reference to an unfortunate series of events that won't be worth explaining in a month. Make it 'Fork My Repo' and I'm a buyer.

As a woman I'd probably be afraid to wear a "Fork my Repo" shirt. I think you can guess why. Just some food for thought...

I see other women wearing shirts that say "kiss me, I'm Irish", and other such suggestive quotes on them, and people still don't really kiss them any more than people not wearing such a shirt.

Just offering another data point.

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