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A stronger argument in line with the "benefit of the child" thinking would be that slight domestic violence should no longer be grounds for divorce since divorce rarely benefits the child. Which is obviously a crazy line of thinking, but so is "let's force a man to (financially) raise a child that isn't his".
That’s not even my argument though? I was very clear that specifically immediately post birth is a high risk time and that mandatory paternity tests at birth increase those risks with little to no benefit to anyone. I did not say anything about forcing a man to raise a child.
How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
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Re: How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
#72Earlier quoted context omitted.
It's been a while and I was always a bit shaky on the actual genetics, so hopefully an actual expert can weigh in here, but as far as I remember - For 1 it depends on the penetrance model (a score on whether all individuals with the disease allele(s) express the disease phenotype: 1=all, 0.5=some, etc.) along with whether the allele's mode of inheritance is recessive/dominant, X-linked or not, and how consanguineous/…
Awesome, I appreciate that. Ok so my question for the researcher would be: 1. Circumstances where both mtDNA and Y chromosome are shared between biological father and pedigreed father. I think the Biblical term is Levirate marriage. 2. Circumstances without Y where maternity is secretly disputable and paternity uncontentious. I think the researcher called this secret adoption. At distances longer than several generat…
1% of the human genome (3billion bp) is still 30M bases, which could easily contain 1 or 2 genes which you may have genotyped, depending on the resolution of your genotyping chip (usually 10M markers spread out over the entire genome, and usually clustered around variants/genes of interest).
So yeah, even 5 generations down these differences could be detected at the variant level. Even at 10, you could still _theoretically_ find differences.
I stress theoretically, because the chance of you having all the individuals from a pedigree genotyped at the same time using the same tech (and thus the same subset of common genotypes to compare) is slim to none.
I'd say 5 generations is a rough rule of thumb where the signal is not that much higher than the noise.
Re: How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
#73Earlier quoted context omitted.
The rationale is that apparently due to rampant adultery a lot more fathers than previously thought are raising another man's kids without knowing it (apparently about 10% last time I read about it, also on HN) and since raising kids to adulthood is very expensive and so if the men could easily find out their kids are not their own, then the man can legally opt-out of that financial responsibility then the French sta…
> then the French state/taxpayer has to pick up the tab for the mother's adultery Why not the biological father? That would make sense.
Re: How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
#74Here's a thought: maybe it has to do with consent?
Re: How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
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What is nuts is that in some countries, its illegal for the father to unilaterally have a paternity test done. I know for France that if you have it done unilaterally and thus illegally you are still on the hook for child support until a legal test is done, which either the mother needs to agree to or needs to be agreed on by the court. IMO a paternity test should just be mandated to be done immediately at birth (or…
I disagree here. Blood tests done at birth are done specifically for the benefit of the child (and with minimal risk to the child). A paternity test has no benefit for the child (it doesn't tell you who the father is, simply who the father isn't) and a ~1% risk of harm to the child. The period immediately after birth is one of the most dangerous times for children, and we (should) specifically take action to protect…
Also, there's a second order effect you're ignoring: a mandated paternity test would change expectant mothers' behavior leading up to the birth. You wouldn't try to dupe someone if you knew you'd be found out. Or, if you weren't sure, you'd more likely be transparent.
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Those who would be obsessed would totally grab a bit of hair and mail it off to some country where such things are legal and get the answer in an email...
Of course you can, but how many courts will side with you based on unlawfully obtained evidence?
Re: How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
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No chance, bucko. The essence of your comment is that paternity testing should be avoided because there is no benefit to children and there is potential harm to women. Your focus was not on the mandatory nature of any such testing. And I believe you understand my analogy in spite of your faux confusion and outrage.
That’s not even my argument though? I was very clear that specifically immediately post birth is a high risk time and that mandatory paternity tests at birth increase those risks with little to no benefit to anyone. I did not say anything about forcing a man to raise a child. You’re deliberately misreading my point to argue against a straw man.
The benefit is to the "father", obviously, in confirming paternity or alerting him of infidelity and fraud. It's either peace of mind or potentially life-changing. The benefit is incalculable.
Your only arguments for why immediately post-birth is a poor time are that it would be convenient for everyone else (including the perpetrator of the fraud) if the victim was unaware and continued to be exploited for some time (how long? when would be a convenient time for the reveal?). That is outrageous.
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A human being is not a car, and your reference to 'emasculation' is very worrying.
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If after all that time it turns out to be not genetically yours I'm sure that hurts. Probably hurts a lot, if it's a betrayal by your partner.
But to pretend that it is in any way the same thing as the government assigning you 'a completely random child' is an absurd hyperbole. Five+ years is a decently long time to be (or think to be) someones father, but for the child that is literally its whole life.
So tell me, if it turns out after 5 years your child isn't biologically yours, you would just abandon it? It's been a nice few years but now it's over, leave to buy cigaretes and never return? And you think remaining its father is the un-manly thing to do? That sounds completely insane to me.
Re: How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
#79Earlier quoted context omitted.
I disagree here. Blood tests done at birth are done specifically for the benefit of the child (and with minimal risk to the child). A paternity test has no benefit for the child (it doesn't tell you who the father is, simply who the father isn't) and a ~1% risk of harm to the child. The period immediately after birth is one of the most dangerous times for children, and we (should) specifically take action to protect…
Wouldn't the marginal risk from the blood test be zero, since they do a little blood prick on their foot anyway? Also, there's a second order effect you're ignoring: a mandated paternity test would change expectant mothers' behavior leading up to the birth. You wouldn't try to dupe someone if you knew you'd be found out. Or, if you weren't sure, you'd more likely be transparent.
The source of risk isn't performing the test, the source of risk is the father getting upset and killing the mother and/or child.
Re: How often are children genetically unrelated to their presumed fathers?
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It is. But obviously people do it anyway: https://www.irishtimes.com/news/french-men-s-insecurity-over... The only problem is, after you've done it, and it turns out the child is not yours, you have two problems.
> In France, a country where infidelity is more often regarded as pleasure than sin, the percentage may be higher. No wonder France decided to ban the tests