I'm just parsing the thread but it seems that changes to the C api can break the Rust bindings.
This leads to two situations: the C maintainer has to also update the Rust binding, or the patch has to wait for a Rust capable maintainer to fix them up.
For the first solution, the C maintainer is claiming he has enough work on his plate just keeping up with the C code that he doesn't want to work on Rust. He also believes it is unfair to force every C maintainer to learn enough Rust to keep their integration points working.
For the second solution, the C maintainer is pointing out that Linus has a history of refusing to merge C patches that break Rust builds. So even though the Rust advocates promise they will handle all of the Rust stuff and they are OK with their stuff being broken after C changes until they get around to fixing it, Linus doesn't seem to actually allow for this in practice.
I can see the maintainers point. Sooner or later Rust bindings on critical systems will be essential and changes to the C code will be gated on changes to the Rust code. It is a fantasy of the Rust maintainers that they will have to shoulder that entire burden. But even if they did, it would give them some pretty hefty leverage over the C maintainers in those essential cases. And it also introduces a requirement that someone with enough Rust and subsystem knowledge is even available for the job. People making promises today may disappear tomorrow, leaving the maintainer with an essential binding to a language he doesn't want to support.
edit: as has been said elsewhere, Linus could make some of this go away by committing to let the Rust builds break. I don't know if that could be done in a way that wouldn't be a de facto fork.