This is to the point where, although it's irrational but I know statistically I'd be fine, I'd be scared to fly on any new generation Boeing.
I'm not sure it's irrational at this point. The entire program seems to have been grossly mismanaged, and that includes on the FAA side.
Unless flying is the only mode of transportation you ever use, avoiding Boeing will not make your life safer, it will at most make you calmer.