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Respectfully this is obnoxious advice for the majority of home cooks. We just want to know what to cook and how.
It’s the opposite. There’s nothing wrong at all with “cook by numbers” and it’s especially great if you didn’t learn to cook as a child. It’s like learning at a coding boot camp where you learn to write some simple business logic based on a spec, or learning algebra in grade 8: basically syntactic transforms with no theory. But Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat will teach you to look in the fridge when you’re hungry but unmotiva…
2. don't tell people their perception of things is wrong, instead consider why they're perceiving things that way, and if you can, do something* that may change their perception
* here, you can't