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> Any other person who lived in a country for a decade and can't converse in the language would be (rightfully imo) shamed for it. How many languages do you know? I live in a country with 11 official languages; please come stay for half a decade.
And no one is expecting you to know all 11. But I'm sure on average most people know more than ONE. which country anyways, India?
TBH, there's only one you need to know in order to feel like a native - english.
> But I'm sure on average most people know more than ONE.
Guilty, unfortunately. The non-english one I know is pointless, useless and has too much emotional baggage attached to it to make me happy about speaking it.
> which country anyways, India?
South Africa.