I’ve definitely spent a ton of time on dependency work. I think the web app ecosystem is unique compared to its counterparts because the platform is really not designed for applications; it’s designed to render documents. You get so much more out of the box when developing for proper application platforms like iOS. For example, dealing with dates and internationalization. iOS gives you enough tools to not really need an extra library. Not so with the web.
Plus, the std for these platforms is much larger too, because you get access to the huge API surface the platform provides. Apple has spent a significant amount of resources making the platform decent to develop for. They even include reactive UI patterns out of the box now; something you’ll need a library for on web.
I think that’s the real shame. The web platform is very flexible and ubiquitous, so most people try to target it. But in doing so, you’ll need to account for web standards differences across browsers (using a tool like browserslist), the cost of downloading the source code when navigating into a page (with webpack and minification to make bundle sizes more reasonable or split up), and the cost of not having strong default patterns for stateful, interactive UI.
Every other platform will include nearly all of the tools you need within the IDE and on the platform. Web just doesn’t have that, unfortunately, and it has further problems that really don’t exist on other platforms. (For example, other platforms don’t rely on downloading the app source code from a remote server when launching it every time.) It relies on the open source community to provide solutions to so many problems, resulting in the complex dependency trees we see in large apps.
On the one hand, the OSS spirit is admirable. There are competing projects for nearly everything, similar to Linux programs. (Just like there are many Linux dependency managers, there are multiple JS dependency managers.) This allows projects to “get better” by competing with each other, but at the cost of breaking changes and maintenance over time. (For example, there are many projects aiming to provide the fastest JS bundler.) But there is something to be said for having an opinionated platform with more features like iOS or UWP for windows.
All that to say, I don’t think this is a JS shortcoming, but a shortcoming of the web platform in general. And some of those shortcomings are inherent to the benefits of the platform.