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Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

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post #42

This doesn't help you maintain connections with people, it's emotional forgery and anyone caught using something like this will find their "connections" evaporate instantly. If you want to maintain connections with people put the effort in, that's the substance of the connection in the first place. If you don't, then don't. People want to feel like they matter to you, so you contacting them shows that you care about…

The concept is creepy and hilarious to me at the same time. Imagine getting a "How's life?" text from your friend when they're taking a nap in the same room. If there's nothing deceptive about this, the app should append "This message was sent by a bot" to what it sends. Except then no one would reply, because it's clear that you're not actually invested in talking to them at that particular time, so why should they…

> If there's nothing deceptive about this, the app should append "This message was sent by a bot" to what it sends.

I agree it's deceptive if the bot is making the final decision to send the message, and the message fails to make clear that it's been sent by a fully automated process.

Obvious alternative: the app could offer the user a pre-populated message. That way the system is doing more than a calendar would, but the action of sending the message is still up to the user. Looks like the app does support a variation of this:

> CommuniqAI will cleverly send text messages of your choosing to, and smartly prompt you to call and email, those that mean the most to you.

The intent of the app does appear to be to enable 'emotional fraud' though, as it seems they do aim to mislead the person being messaged (about it being an automated message). They would even want to support deceptively impersonating you for the purpose of replying, if only it were possible with current technology:

> Warning: CommuniqAI works well when used sparingly with simple messages—perhaps too well. While it’ll keep you in regular contact with those that mean the most to you, they’ll be inclined to reply back and, at this time, CommuniqAI is not intelligent enough to reply in context—so you’ll need to reply back yourself.

Here, works well is clearly referring to its ability to deceive someone into thinking the message was not sent automatically.

> Imagine getting a "How's life?" text from your friend when they're taking a nap in the same room.

A possibility, but more likely, imagine getting a How's life? text from someone you met up with yesterday.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#172
post #11

Absolutely love it. Does it support birthday, anniversary, and other special date reminders? Consider cribbing off of the Monica friends CRM [1] for inspiration. Any plans for an iOS version? [1] https://www.monicahq.com/

Thanks! I specifically left date reminders out as I felt these were better handled by a calendar. I have not heard about Monica, but will check it out. As for iOS, not anytime soon; Google is very restrictive when it comes to text messaging and calls and Apple is even more so.

Please consider an iOS version even if it’s just a reminder app. I have too many other thoughts on my mind and I need to remember to reach out to people.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

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post #119
post #106

Is the link broken or app is down? It redirects to https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=dev.mtc.ga And shows "We're sorry, the requested URL was not found on this server."

I'm sorry, but the app is currently in beta and limited to 88 countries/regions to better support this. Please let me know what country you are in so that I may rectify this.

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Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#175
post #119

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I'm sorry, but the app is currently in beta and limited to 88 countries/regions to better support this. Please let me know what country you are in so that I may rectify this.

Can you make it available to Portugal? I would love to give it a try

Done! Please give this a few hours to be effective!

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#176
post #137

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> Then you end up with unread messages for weeks at a time. If people are a priority for you, then you need to just make time. No one is unable to spare 5 minutes to text back. You just have to sacrifice 5 minutes of something else, whether it's work, a video game, or a hobby. If you can't spare that, then I guess accept that those people aren't that important to you.

It takes many of us longer than 5 minutes to compose the BEST response (part of option 2), especially if you have a queue built up.

Some perspective: sometimes the best response is signalling to people that they're important to you and that getting back to them quickly is important to you.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#177

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>automating your interactions with them with AI It does not do this- it either notifies you to talk to them if you haven't in a while, or it automatically sends a single message to start a conversation. Note that I don't necessarily agree with this. I simply have a mental list of friends who I currently am keeping in touch with and every once in a while check up on the ones I haven't spoken to in a few days.

Do you suppose there is a "natural max" of connections one is primed to keep in touch with? That after that number, it becomes more or less a task rather than reaching out out of genuine interest.

Depends on how social you are and how much free time you have. Mentally, I think it can become taxing to reach out to that many people. So yeah, I suppose there is a natural max that depends on personality, free time, etc.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

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That too but the name is an important factor.

The more important factor is the actual execution. And the reality is this is has been done, many, many times. In fact a friend recently wrote a version of this in order to learn Swift. Ultimately it’s a social problem not a technological problem. I don’t think this is quite hitting the nail on the end. The author said part of the motivation was that his gf wanted periodic reach outs during the day. Automating this i…

I disagree.

Your product is not alone in the world. If you give yourself a handicap (bad name), a competitor will clone your app, use a much easier name, capture all your target audience and leave you holding the bag.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#179
Wannabe psychologists and communication experts trying to teach others how they should talk to people. Prerecorded messages are fake and people using this app are sociopaths. Judgemental much? I say author and anybody like him in this matter can communicate however they want.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#180
post #77

The moment someone realizes you are using this, you may be seen as someone fake. Never let it happen.

I never remember people's birthdays, so I have added them to my calendar, and I make sure to message people to wish them a happy birthday when I get the calendar notification. Does this make my happy birthday wishes fake? Should I never let anyone realize I use a calendar?

Having BDs in the calendar, so you could send a happy birthday message is fine. Having an automated message sent without your doing anything and even thinking about it - is not. There's a big difference.
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