>There is a very simple reason why these restrictions are outrageous: individuals have a right to gather with their friends if they so choose.
I agree that "being able to gather with your friends" is a great thing, but I don't see why it's a sacred right that is "outrageous" to restrict no matter the consequences.
Like a lot of these debates, this sort of things comes down to your personal beliefs in the relative importances of:
- "The right as an invididual to do X"
- "The right as an individual to not be negatively affected by someone else doing X"
Most actions all on the spectrum somewhere:
"Society has decided it's acceptable for me to drive a car, even though it puts pedestrians at risk of being run over"
"Society has decided that it's not acceptable for me to drive a car when intoxicated, even if's really inconvenient for me to get a taxi home, because the risk of me killing a pedistrian is too high"
"Society isn't quite sure what the maximum speed that I can drive a car at on a surban street (and get to my destination faster, while increasing the risk of killing someone), but it's not 'as fast as I can go', and it's not '2 MPH'".
Its the same with "the right to gather with friends, and in the process increase the chances that I'll get COVID and pass it on to someone who dies from it". Simply declaring it "outrageous" not to maintain that right is overly simplistic, and I think that actually, some form of utilitiarian thinking is very helpful.
In short, you can't just reject utilitarian thinking just because your utility function is different to that of society's.