I've just started a business myself, and this regulation affects my company too. It makes development costlier; it'll take from the precious little time we have to spend on compliance paperwork rather than work on our core business. In the short run, it does hurt our chances of success.
Yet, none of the trouble is even comparable to what's to be gained here. And it bothers me (though doesn't surprise me) that some people don't see that.
It also bothers me that such vocal opposition barely comes up when the discussion is just about bigger companies such as Google and Facebook. How can we expect "un-evilness" from bigger companies when we're barely willing to do anything in that regard ourselves?