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Re: No tipping means better business

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> One is the idea of a percentage I've always found this odd too. Say for a special occasion I decide to go to a high end steakhouse... mid-range bottle of wine, two nice steaks, a'la cart sides, appetizer, and desert we're at $500. That's $100 at 20%. Did that person really do more work than the person I tipped $10 at Chili's (an american casual family restaurant)? > Another inconsistency is where to tip I usually e…

Yes, on average the server at the high end restaurant did substantially more work, and they performed it more expertly. they were better able to answer questions and offer suggestions (including off-menu changes that might help you). They timed your meal for your enjoyment rather than for turnover. They made sure you had fresh silverware, a clean table, and a full glass. They coordinated your bar, wine, and food orde…

All of these things you describe, fall under what I consider "their job"

Re: No tipping means better business

#382

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Isn't that an either-or? I've always either written the tip or the total amount on trips to the US.

As an American, I have always written both the tip and the total on the slip. Until this moment, I have never actually considered only writing one or the other. I probably will continue to write both as I'm a little paranoid about people making changes to the values before they get put into the machine, and having to change 2 lines is harder than 1.

Is that more likely than you making a mistake and the person picking the higher value?

Re: No tipping means better business

#383

I read an argument once that that tipping is probably illegal under US employment law because, in practice, its racist. Research indicates that servers who are ethnic minorities are tipped less than white women, who are tipped most. Sure the employer isn't doing the discrimination themselves but they are setting up compensation scheme that, in practice, is discriminatory. This is called "adverse impact" in US employm…

It seems like you're only classifying the physical labor as "work", and ignoring the skill and effort it takes to do all the stuff a waiter/waitress does. There's a lot of memorization involved, being able to answer a lot of different questions, making sure the meal gets delivered as soon as possible, with the right stuff, and checking back at the correct times to see if anything else is needed, including drinks. It's a lot harder than it seems.

The bussing jobs are a lot more physical and there's less to think about.

Also, he gets 10% of the tip... But where does the rest go? You're assuming the other 90% goes to the waiter/waitress, but it's possible a large portion of it goes to the kitchen staff.

Re: No tipping means better business

#384

Or, you know, finally unfuck your riddiculous system where paid vacations is a luxury, minimum wage is pathetic and health insurance is not the standard...

> finally unfuck your riddiculous system

Would you please stop posting rage rhetoric to HN? We've asked you this before, but you're still doing it a lot. Fulmination lowers the quality of discussion, even when you're not attacking anyone personally.

We detached this subthread from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=13263073 and marked it off-topic.

Re: No tipping means better business

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Tipping is also extremely inconsistent in at least three ways. One is the idea of a percentage: how does that make any sense? When I go out for a rare nice dinner and the tip alone ends up being $20 or so, I ask myself: did this person/restaurant really do any more than the server of the last entire meal that cost $20? Of course not, and yet somehow it would look weird to pay $40 for a $20 meal with tip, for the same…

Yes. Another inconsistency involves the point in time at which a tip is expected. Historically tips came after the meal (or other service), and in theory you would tip well if you were happy with service, and badly or not at all if you were unhappy. In itself that made a little bit of sense (w/o considering the contradictions you mentioned). But nowadays you're often expected to tip at beginning of meal (i.e., when y…

I'd definitely am curious as to the impact on tips when it's expected upfront like that.

Re: No tipping means better business

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post #361

Tipping is also extremely inconsistent in at least three ways. One is the idea of a percentage: how does that make any sense? When I go out for a rare nice dinner and the tip alone ends up being $20 or so, I ask myself: did this person/restaurant really do any more than the server of the last entire meal that cost $20? Of course not, and yet somehow it would look weird to pay $40 for a $20 meal with tip, for the same…

Yes. Another inconsistency involves the point in time at which a tip is expected. Historically tips came after the meal (or other service), and in theory you would tip well if you were happy with service, and badly or not at all if you were unhappy. In itself that made a little bit of sense (w/o considering the contradictions you mentioned). But nowadays you're often expected to tip at beginning of meal (i.e., when y…

Nothing makes me feel like a sucker more than tipping before service is rendered, and then getting bad service!

Re: No tipping means better business

#388
post #37

> Now what if we were to magically make tipping disappear? Think about the diner for a second. What if, by removing tips from your restaurant, you’ll actually end up delighting more guests, improving your food, and retaining employees? Well, I've dined all over the world (not an American btw), and the US had the most friendly and alert waiting stuff, which I guess it's at least party because of the tipping. Sure, in…

Definitely cultural as the other guy said. When I visit the US I imagine I get much the same experience as you but instead of "friendly" and "alert" my description would be more "intrusive" and "transparently faking a level of happiness I only experience very infrequently and never while at work."

I am from the US and I couldn't agree more. The whole fake niceness is just so draining on you to put up with all the time, day in and day out. You aren't my friend, I am just trying to get through my day.

Re: No tipping means better business

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post #58

As a person who was born and living in a country which has no tipping culture. The tipping sucks. I should have been fully informed how much should I have to pay before I purchase something or some service. Any extra demand from agreed amount should be illegal. I also don't want to waste my precious time on paying the tip for calculating tax. The worker's salary is a employer's responsibility. If the the worker becom…

>The worker's salary is a employer's responsibility. If the the worker become underpaid without the tipping, then the worker is underpaid by the employer. This! Tipping is nothing but the employer passing the buck and guilting the customer.

It's an ingrained part of US culture. An individual restaurant owner _could_ try to change it, but that would probably be very hard.

Re: No tipping means better business

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post #381

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Yes, on average the server at the high end restaurant did substantially more work, and they performed it more expertly. they were better able to answer questions and offer suggestions (including off-menu changes that might help you). They timed your meal for your enjoyment rather than for turnover. They made sure you had fresh silverware, a clean table, and a full glass. They coordinated your bar, wine, and food orde…

All of these things you describe, fall under what I consider "their job"

Your point being?
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