I'm American but I've lived overseas for nearly a decade, and I hardly ever go back. In recent years when I meet other Americans who are visiting my city, I often get this vague feeling that they're just trying too hard in one way or another. Maybe they're working too hard, or trying too hard to impress someone, or get attention, or assert themselves. I don't know if I've changed or if America is changed or if it's s…
It's pretty similar in London (UK), for example.
Here, it's about the fact that most people are hilariously, almost comically underpaid.
The cheapest 1 bedroom flat I can find within an hour of the centre is going to be in the ballpark of 200K.
So if you don't have established wealth, or earn at least 50K (4x mortgage), you're a prole.
Unsurprisingly, people don't want to be proles, so they work their bollocks off to get out of that category.