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> you are very likely correct that it's a numbers game On the surface it's numbers game. But 2/3rds of getting hired is a confidence game. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confidence_trick See also https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affinity_fraud Some programmers are really good at what they do but they just suck at playing the game. Or more likely they suck at it worse than the average hiring manager.
Interesting reads, thank you. As for confidence, I should learn to fake it already I guess. I am a realistic down to earth guy who doesn't deny when he doesn't know something -- nobody can know everything. But that's likely not the point; more likely it's about projecting an image of "nothing can give me a true pause"?
It's a skill some people are naturals and some aren't everyone though can get better at it.