I kind of get why we don’t like this in email, but for SMS and Slack I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reactions. They’re a way to say “I received this and have a positive reaction to it, with no further communication necessary”. Replaces a lot of useless typing I had to do to sound polite when saying “fine, no further comment”. And then getting a notification from the other party acknowledging my acknowledgment… yuck.
Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
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Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#52Earlier quoted context omitted.
RCS is already here on Android, but I keep it disabled in order to avoid read receipts and typing indicators.
You can disable read receipts and typing indicators without disabling RCS
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#53Earlier quoted context omitted.
This question is how we get opinionated software that slowly-but-surely stops serving the user. "I don't like it" should be a perfectly valid reason for turning off a feature.
Except, by turning them off, you are therefore forcing people who want to communicate with you to adapt to your communication preferences because you have, by fiat, decided that you simply don't want to perceive the communication method they prefer. Coming to an agreement with others about how you want to communicate with them as fine, but communication is a two-way street, and so it has to be bilaterally negotiated…
I don't see how. All it means is that I won't see the reactions. That's my loss. I'm not forcing anyone else to do anything differently.
If it actually begins to interfere with communications too much, I can turn them back on.
> it's somehow unethical or abusive of the user or something
For me, that's not the thing at all. It's more that configuration options often make the difference between software being useful to me and not being useful to me. That's all.
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#54Can an anti-reaction person explain what they find so distasteful about them? Is it that the other person wasn't willing to make the effort to type is seen as disrespectful? struggling to see what the problem is
I've struggled my entire life trying to control my focus, and it's like the rest of humanity has decided to go all in on filling our shared environment with even more distractions. It sucks. It's manipulative. Let me turn it off. Leave me be. Better yet, help me pay attention to the things _I_ value.
/rant
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#55Earlier quoted context omitted.
It should be entirely socially acceptable to respond to any trivial message with "ACKNOWLEDGED" á la Picard
I agree. Also, if the message proposes any action, it should be appropriate to reply with "Make it so.".
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#56Earlier quoted context omitted.
This question is how we get opinionated software that slowly-but-surely stops serving the user. "I don't like it" should be a perfectly valid reason for turning off a feature.
Perhaps it would be better to ask, how do you expect people to communicate to you those things that would be expressed as reactions?
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#57Earlier quoted context omitted.
This question is how we get opinionated software that slowly-but-surely stops serving the user. "I don't like it" should be a perfectly valid reason for turning off a feature.
Except, by turning them off, you are therefore forcing people who want to communicate with you to adapt to your communication preferences because you have, by fiat, decided that you simply don't want to perceive the communication method they prefer. Coming to an agreement with others about how you want to communicate with them as fine, but communication is a two-way street, and so it has to be bilaterally negotiated…
Ultimately, this is something that I'd rather be handled at the carrier layer: I should be able to have my phone reject a text message and not pay for / receive it.
On the topic of configurability: Software should ultimately serve the end user. When a developer makes an undesirable (to a user) change to the software and provides the user no way to opt out of that change, it's serving the developer's interests, and it's doing a slightly worse job at serving the user.
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#58Earlier quoted context omitted.
Genuine question: why?
This question is how we get opinionated software that slowly-but-surely stops serving the user. "I don't like it" should be a perfectly valid reason for turning off a feature.
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
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I would love to disable that on my client. I never want to see reactions.
Honestly if someone were to send me a message that only required a simple acknowledgement, and that person hypothetically had disabled reactions, I would interpret that as that person not wanting their message to be acknowledged. But I suspect what you’re really wanting is typed acknowledgment?
Re: Stop Microsoft users sending 'reactions' to email by adding a postfix header
#60I kind of get why we don’t like this in email, but for SMS and Slack I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reactions. They’re a way to say “I received this and have a positive reaction to it, with no further communication necessary”. Replaces a lot of useless typing I had to do to sound polite when saying “fine, no further comment”. And then getting a notification from the other party acknowledging my acknowledgment… yuck.
It should be entirely socially acceptable to respond to any trivial message with "ACKNOWLEDGED" á la Picard