Earlier quoted context omitted.
I've found that I have gotten better at this as I've gotten older. it does get easier.
I’ve been forced to learn how to deal with “DAAAAAAADDY!” whatever I’m doing, so now I try to do as little loading of state into my head as possible. Part of that is meticulous notes on what I’m currently doing and planning to do, lots of “todo” comments and comments in general, etc. The other part is just learning to live with interruptions through experience. Some people might not have the same success, your mileag…
Good and Bad Procrastination (2005)
41–45 of 45 posts
Re: Good and Bad Procrastination (2005)
#42This post is pretty old, and I'm curious why it's been put up here today and what sort of conversation mmphosis was hoping for. To me, it reads as a half-considered opinion. Could it be that the siren song of ambition and personal legacy is a nice little perk if you can afford it? Is there a counter argument to be made that if you can't keep your personal shit together, you obviously lack the discipline required to turn those deep-thinky thoughts into a legacy? Are we taking digs at how the progress 2-3 productive coders make in the early, dark hours of a startup loses steam as it tries to scale? Anyone of these conversations overlooks a pretty crucial idea, which is potentially a more productive conversation in itself: how do we find and conscript those people who will fix our printers, run our errands, and generally work to move objects out of our way while we follow our delight? Do we have to occasionally treat their fiddly petitions for reassurance with respect, as a sort of payment for their efforts or do we simply assume that being around greatness is enough?
Re: Good and Bad Procrastination (2005)
#43Earlier quoted context omitted.
In general I agree, but if your partner isn’t used to that type of work they don’t really get it. Nor do they understand how a simple question can ruin an entire train of thought. edit: In explaining this to my girlfriend, I showed her this comic: https://heeris.id.au/2013/this-is-why-you-shouldnt-interrupt... Didn’t make any sense to her. And even after talking about this she doesn’t get that “just coming in for a k…
> I showed her this comic: [...] Didn’t make any sense to her Ask her to imagine that her job is to do multiplication problems involving not-even-large (three digits, let's say) numbers without writing down any of the steps (so, mental math). She should be able to recognize that this is doable, but with a higher-than-average amount of concentration to keep track of the intermediate values, and that any breaks in conc…
Re: Good and Bad Procrastination (2005)
#44Earlier quoted context omitted.
The benefit of being male is that I thankfully can defer this choice indefinitely, but man, what a trade off (especially as I’d like to have kids for my mom’s sake, and she’s not getting any younger).
> The benefit of being male is that I thankfully can defer this choice indefinitely Men don't have a sharp fertility cliff, but paternal age isn’t irrelevant to reproduction, either.
Re: Good and Bad Procrastination (2005)
#45I find this to be the absolute hardest part of living with someone. You’re at the mercy of their ability to interrupt you and I find it incredibly demoralizing.
After a number of frustrating episodes for my wife and I, we came up with a plan. At my home office desk, I've got a 5x7 index card with a big red dot on one side and a big green dot on the other , which I use to communicate whether I'm interruptible. When green is showing, she's free to chime in about any random thing. When red is showing, it needs to be some kind of emergency. This has help us maintain domestic pea…
Surprisingly, a feature to just "display a light when you're working" isn't super common.
Since it was just a keyboard shortcut to start the timer (I was also contracting at the time), this ensured my partner could see I was working easily without having to ask me :)
(apologies for poor code quality, this was hacked together extremely quickly... behind on tasks and needed a productivity boost, etc.)