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Men tend to work themselves to death in much higher frequency than women. Women benefit from social fabric when they are at the bottom, even homeless women are housed (at unfixed address) while men really are on the street. I’m of the impression that we can’t reduce gaps without introducing the threat of social declassment of women when they fail.
Did it occur to you that a better alternative is to provide a safety net for both men and women, instead of taking the response "if i can't have it, you can't either"? Engaging in a race to the bottom, ensuring everybody is equally bad off, is maybe not the best strategy to ensure equal treatment. (yes, it works. It's just not very productive)
- People do not want to provide this safety net for men,
- People psychologically resist to remove it from women.
Equality is not possible.