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> I generally trust Apple. Why? I can't imagine any kind of real trust relationship except with individual developers or small shops who can be responsive to individual customers. I certainly trust Apple more than Microsoft, but I can't imagine any situation in which I'd say I trusted them (or any other megacorp) in an unqualified sense.
Flipping the question around, what exactly are you worried they will do? I'm on your "side" on this in that I dislike closed ecosystems, spyware and not having control over my own devices. But I am not in tech and the vast majority of people I know don't care about this and likely never will, and every year that goes by without Apple remotely bricking their phone with no recourse only strengthens their apathy. Trust…
It is not a false dichotomy: Apple controls who gets to use iPhones and what they get to do on iPhones.
Can someone use an iPhone without an Apple account? If Apple were to lock or ban a user's Apple account, what could the user do about it?
Can someone run arbitrary software of their choice on an iPhone?
>> You can accept that Apple's incentives don't align perfectly with yours while being comfortable that they align enough that Apple will provide you with the service you're looking for.
Yes, but for how long and under what conditions? How willing are people to change when they are locked-in to the Apple ecosystem?