Be blunt: I am and it's true that there's huge chunks of the industry I rarely interact with. Might have missed plenty. I particularly appreciate you bringing the NSX security framework to my attention. However, most of what you're mentioning are
features that firewalls support where my post said they needed features +
assurance (aka "guards," or firewalls with security inside). Most of the firewalls, if evaluated at all, stay at EAL4 or lower: certified to stop "casual or inadvertant attempts to breach security." They don't even get pen-tested by pro's or a source review. Any pro taking time examining a unit will probably find a 0-day or bypass. Grime's reviews showed many even had unknown services running, like FTP, without telling users. They're also prone to subversion as only EAL6/7 reduces that and Snowden leaks confirmed that for many companies.
So, my comment and yours actually agree that network defense is necessary. I just added this in my original comment: (a) real endpoint security, (b) app/protocol-layer security, (c) the right features in firewall, and (d) rigorous assurance and evaluation for each. The result of these combine did resist strong attackers in the past and present. The Boeing SNS Server, for example, hasn't been compromised in 15 years despite multiple pen-tests by NSA and private labs. That's high assurance and minimum of rigor that stops nation states. Commercial firewalls are largely not designed like that. So, they have the features but not assurance of implementation or self-protection. And not integrated enough with endpoints for enforcement to be split properly between the two. See below for an example of a stronger configuration:
http://www.dtic.mil/dtic/tr/fulltext/u2/a425566.pdf
Back to your peer review of his list, which I appreciate given your an insider. No 1 I've seen myself and agree. No 2 yes lol. No 3 I learned from you and will repeat to anyone else not aware of these things. No 4 is THE DUMBEST THING HE SAID, has never happened, and won't happen without fundamental changes I preach about here. Enough said. No 5. If my perimiter collapses, they're seeing (a) encrypted traffic that tells them nothing or (b) plain traffic whose nodes resist their attacks. Perimeter to me is minor DLP, DOS prevention, and IDS mainly. No 6, 7, and 8. Alright, that's 3 in his favor.
Your last point is the weakest one: companies regularly spend millions on inferior or non-solutions to problems because they don't know better. How much IT industry spends on something tells us nothing about its security or quality. If you're right, then Windows, Oracle, SAP, and Cisco switches are the highest quality and most secure things out there. (Checks the CVE's and news reports.) Nevermind...