Did that my first sentence above just hurt the feelings of the author or many of the readers over here? Please read on.
This kind of philosophies (be kind-hearted, be tolerant etc) are the ones making humanity loose their natural vigor and push people into unnatural soft-minded, lame and vulnerable population.
These self-restricting rules makes you neutral and weak against someone who goes by natural and wild instincts. This is what is happening in the case of extremism of different kinds. The natural attitude always wins.
Be yourself. Be natural. Don't let your supremacy go without gains. Don't impose restrictions on yourself, just to please others.
Look at this. The author says that the people who lost their argument complain about the winner and forces the winner to mend his ways, just by holding team work to ransom, instead of improving their own thinking. And the author and his boss asks us to give in to such unfair play.
Sometimes It appears that most of the men in the developed world are feminized (weakened or neutralized) by their schooling and social restrictions. They are forced to present themselves always in a very pleasant form to others, instead of their natural form. Being social and well-mannered is taken to a little too far, and creating the lame populations all over world, begging for likes, karma, votes, recognition, appreciation and pampering. This is not how a strong society evolves. Stop being childish all through your life.
Please, let the better thought win and prevail. Don't let it loose to the unfair demands by the weak minds who don't want to accept the legitimate supremacy of others. Be manly. Because that is natural.
And finally, if you feel that the above is a little too harsh, you haven't grown out of your pampered childhood yet.