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> I interview well and am quite easy to deal with on an interpersonal level. This is one thing I would question about your self-assessment. What evidence are you relying on for this statement? The reason I say this is that, (I believe) research shows that anything beyond the first 30 seconds or so during an interview actually doesn't matter. Obviously this is a statistical thing and may not apply in any given concret…
I speak well and make a great first impression, honestly. I have always understood how important that is. Having said that, I just realized that what I started considering as the problem (my resume) may not be what needs work. In another comment, the statement was made that companies are willing to overlook certain things for the right candidate. Perhaps my garbage resume is being overlooked I make it past the first…
You say and believe that, obviously. But do you have independent and (above all) disinterested corroboration?
(I think the experience you relate in the last paragraph might be a symptom of increasing pressure being put on the hiring part of HR and them, thus, being reluctant to reject candidates earlier.)