Earlier quoted context omitted.
Waiters in the US make an average of $4.63 and median of $4.00 per hour [1] from their employer in wages. They make the rest of their income in tips. If you don't tip, you're potentially taking a not insignificant chunk out of their pay for the day. In the US, it takes fairly extreme circumstances to not tip (by most people's standards at least; some people just never tip, but they're a tiny group), like if the servi…
>> some people just never tip, but they're a tiny group In my experience, they're not tiny. I'm a young male who owned and worked in my own bar in a poor area of the bible belt, so there's those caveats--but I averaged about 8% in tips over 2.5 years. My niece, on the other hand, averages over 20%. My service was in all likelihood better than hers--at the time, we had fewer customers and therefore I was literally abl…
Can you clarify the circumstances here, namely:
- does she work in your bar? If not, how similar is the place she works (same city? Same type of neighborhood? Same type of services?)
- did you work the same hours / days / crowd demographic? (There may be a difference in tipping expectations on Wednesday mid-afternoon when people are getting a single drink after work, vs Friday night when they're getting multiple drinks and food and trying to impress their date.)
- were there significant changes in the surrounding area, such as a factory opening or closing, that changed customer demographics?
- are there other wait staff you can compare to that would show a pattern? For example, are women in your establishment generally better tipped than men?