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I used to think this way, but one of the best programmers I work with basically refuses to even touch a computer outside of work. And yet he's extremely good at what he does, and you can figure that out within like 15 seconds of talking to him about a hard problem. As far as heuristics go I don't think this is a good one.
Your friend is an exception. I've met a few, too, but the majority of top-tier programmers I know program outside of work. I'm not talking about "hackathons" and shit like that, or github profiles--usually just personal projects for practical or amusement (often both) purposes. Heuristics are, unfortunately, quite valuable in hiring scenarios, especially for start-ups. It's also just much more fun to work with people…
The thing is though, you can love programming and find that 40 hours a week of it is more than enough. I think what you'd find with this heuristic is that it tends to favor young people. It's a lot easier to be enthusiastic about some side project when you're 20 than when you're 40 and have a lot of responsibilities.