Maybe this is a Java developer thing.
Everybody decried Ruby's 107 methods on Array. Then Fowler came out with "fluent-interfaces", and how often do you see someone make the claims that Ruby's Array is indicative of a general badness because it has a lot of methods and you can't memorize them all in an hour as a newbie?
scala.collection is the same deal.
:\? Sure it's not a good idea. I wouldn't debate that. Who uses that? foldLeft/foldRight.
And what's the deal with trying to memorize the entire interface anyways? 8 or so years with Ruby, writing libraries with over 4 million downloads (https://rubygems.org/profiles/ssmoot), and there are definitely methods in Ruby's Array I'm unfamiliar with.
So what?
While :: and ::: look a little foreign, I don't think asking people to learn them if they want to work with Lists in a Functional manner is anymore difficult than learning what the "spaceship operator" does in Ruby. And it's optional. You don't have to use them. But they're usage will probably be the smaller part in the grand scheme of things. Pattern Matching and accomplishing functional recursion with immutable data is the bigger picture. Outside of that context (and the REPL I guess, for convenience) you're just not going to see either of those operators very often (IME).
You don't use a "splat" (aka 'punched in the face'? That's a new one to me) operator very often. It's actually one of the few semi-pattern-matchy areas of Ruby so it comes pretty naturally for me.
You don't become a pro overnight. You can trust I'd be teaching infrequently used idioms in Ruby to a developer who'd only been using it for six months. Been there, done that. ;-)
I guess where I'm coming from is using CBF to claim Scala is a confusing, indecipherable language. Everyone's had that argument. I don't know that anyone wants to stand up and claim it's the best. But it works. Actually using it is a non-issue since you don't actually explicitly use it. And look at the docs. They're actually pretty great overall.
It just bothers me I suppose that someone interested in exploring Scala would be dissuaded by something that's only ever been a problem for 1% of 1% of Scala developers.
If you're just looking to swap in Play to replace Rails, odds are you'll never run into any of these CBF "concerns". At all. That's the very definition of "FUD" IMO.
For every CBF in Scala there's a Calendar in Java. Languages aren't perfect. CBF is probably a wart. But it's a hidden one. If you let it scare you off from Scala that's sad, because it really has about as much to do with day to day Scala development as array.c (https://github.com/ruby/ruby/blob/trunk/array.c) has to do with Ruby development.