That's sad, but you are not doing drugs - you can quit easily, just do it! Try to do sports or stuff like that, travel.. Seriously, alcohol is disgusting if you drink it every day. I have a hooker problem, no joke. Since we are talking about addictions here?
I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
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Re: I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
#112Re: I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
#113That's sad, but you are not doing drugs - you can quit easily, just do it! Try to do sports or stuff like that, travel.. Seriously, alcohol is disgusting if you drink it every day. I have a hooker problem, no joke. Since we are talking about addictions here?
Speaking personally, alcohol has been incredibly hard to break away from and did as much or more damage to my life than my other drugs of choice.
Speaking more scientifically, alcohol withdrawal has the potential to kill you if you don't seek help[1]. It's absolutely miserable even when you don't die, of course.
I understand that people can be addicted to all kinds of things, and that some addictions such as gambling have the potential to ruin lives just like substance abuse. However, alcohol is a powerful, absurdly common, physically addictive substance.
Quitting was necessary for me, but a phrase like "you can quit easily, just do it!" is wrong to the point that it's almost offensive.
[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcohol_withdrawal_syndrome
Re: I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
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No, please don't. http://skepfeeds.wordpress.com/2009/02/04/alcoholics-anonymo... There are more effective, non religious, evidence based treatments for addiction. Edited to add: Penn and Teller covered AA here: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yUG9dr6SZSY Also: http://www.psmag.com/navigation/books-and-culture/75-years-a...
Wow, that Penn and Teller thing is horrible. About 3:30 when they're reading from the AA book -- "I admit that I am powerless over alcohol" as Teller makes fun like it's the stupidest idea ever. A lot of the people you'll find in AA really do need to admit they're powerless over alcohol. That's no joke. But Penn and Teller readily admit they've never had a drink in their lives (it was a choice we made, a path we neve…
Re: I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
#115That's sad, but you are not doing drugs - you can quit easily, just do it! Try to do sports or stuff like that, travel.. Seriously, alcohol is disgusting if you drink it every day. I have a hooker problem, no joke. Since we are talking about addictions here?
That's sad, but you are not doing drugs serisously, this nonsense has to stop. Alcohol = drugs and whoever tells otherwise doesn't properly understand what drugs are and how they work on your mind and body. Note: I tried a lot of stuff out there, and in the end alcohol is just one of the others, sole difference being it's 'accepted', sort of (btw same is true for quite a lot of the prescription things as well) - you…
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Religion is no better substitute to alcoholism!
+1 on this. Religion can take you down some dangerous paths too. Stick to scientific and medical methods.
Re: I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
#117That's sad, but you are not doing drugs - you can quit easily, just do it! Try to do sports or stuff like that, travel.. Seriously, alcohol is disgusting if you drink it every day. I have a hooker problem, no joke. Since we are talking about addictions here?
Speaking as a recovering addict and alcoholic, trivializing alcohol addiction and the effort it takes to recover from it is both incorrect and potentially harmful. Speaking personally, alcohol has been incredibly hard to break away from and did as much or more damage to my life than my other drugs of choice. Speaking more scientifically, alcohol withdrawal has the potential to kill you if you don't seek help[1]. It's…
Re: I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
#118Keep calm & write awesome code
Re: I am a successful software dev but I have a serious drinking problem
#119Earlier quoted context omitted.
Speaking as a recovering addict and alcoholic, trivializing alcohol addiction and the effort it takes to recover from it is both incorrect and potentially harmful. Speaking personally, alcohol has been incredibly hard to break away from and did as much or more damage to my life than my other drugs of choice. Speaking more scientifically, alcohol withdrawal has the potential to kill you if you don't seek help[1]. It's…
Hm, how to differ "i'm addicted and can die" and "i just like beer"? Is there obvious symptoms ?
I don't know of a great way to answer the question "am I an addict?" that doesn't require some serious introspection. That being said, one thing I often tell people is that if they're honestly, seriously concerned that they're drinking too much and if they're asking me whether they're an alcoholic, it's something worth looking in to.
Before I abused alcohol, I abused prescription stimulants. Sometimes I'd take them and then spend hours browsing wikipedia reading about their addictive potential, or reading about how abuse of stimulants was spreading across America. It was a pretty obvious warning sign.
The reason I know I'm an addict is because once I start drinking/popping pills, I really can't stop myself. I keep drinking until I pass out, or keep binging on pills until I'm out and I haven't slept in days. AA has the saying "one [drink] is too many, and a thousand is never enough", and it certainly applies to me. Most addicts I've talked to feel the same way.