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Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by nvme0n1p1 » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:02 AM UTC

bjt wrote: post #86

jquery wrote: post #79

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Probably so, but it was incredibly ill advised of Netflix to admit to this. That’s what I find the most shocking, far more than the firing itself. I cannot fathom how admitting “yeah we fired them for going to therapy” plays to their benefit.

Because at some point their emails about the firing will be subpoenaed, and if they lie about it now it's going to bite them harder later.

They still didn't have to outright confess to the crime though. When talking to journalists you're allowed to say "no comment".

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by mcphage » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:02 AM UTC

delichon wrote: post #33

Turns out it was a trust calibrating exercise that the whole team learned from.

And all it will cost them will be a huge settlement!

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by natbennett » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:04 AM UTC

The issue here isn’t that this guy shared something about his personal life it’s the particular personal details. It’s possible to share information about your personal life without talking about your drug use or your therapy or your drug use at therapy.

It is irritating that people expect you to understand what reasonable personal sharing is without explaining explicitly and goodness knows I screwed this up when I was younger but “don’t talk about your personal life at all” is bad advice.

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by q8zd3 » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:09 AM UTC

Bad move. Those corporate events serve the purpose to find "bad apples" (from the employer's perspective), to either shape you into what they want or cut you off.

Never sacrifice your privacy in such an environment.

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by cmiles8 » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:09 AM UTC

Arainach wrote: post #96

cmiles8 wrote: post #58

Keep work life and personal life separate. No exceptions. If a company tries to encourage you to do otherwise I’d strongly suggest you find a new employer.

Most people prefer to work with humans, not robots. Common experiences and getting to know people are a huge part of that. Sharing stories and getting to know people humanizes them. It's much easier to hate "that team in another country" you've never met than that person you've had a meal together with and learned about their hobbies.

Not saying you can’t discuss basic details like did you do anything interesting this weekend, but these things like “share deep personal details” as mentioned in the article have no place at work.

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by sxp » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:11 AM UTC

From https://nypost.com/2026/07/26/us-news/netflix-exec-goes-ball...

  > Baillie claims he explained the reason why he had taken the drug but was investigated by Netflix. On March 18, 2026 a company investigator brought the incident up, “in a manner suggesting suspicion of recreational drug use,” the suit reads.

So the nominal issue is recreational drug use rather than ketamine therapy. It's also not clear that he was fired for the therapy itself. And I doubt Netflix would fire someone just for therapeutic (or even recreational) drug use unless it has a negative impact on the workplace performance. If it was proper & legal therapy (e.g, https://www.betterucare.com/), Netflix wouldn't fire a person since it would have positive impact on their workplace performance. But if Netflix fired an employee for a valid cause, I would expect the employee to try to counter with any option that would get them a severance or settlement.

It's likely that we're not hearing the full story and the news sites are just writing clickbait articles from one-sided excerpts of the lawsuit that the ex-employee filed.

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by pibaker » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:12 AM UTC

bijowo1676 wrote: post #42

ab71e5 wrote: post #22

So he was fired for sharing he had ketamine based therapy for depression? Why? Like is it promoting drug use or something?

isn't this highly illegal, since it is used for medical purpose (mental health) ? its like firing a person who was sedated by professional Anesthesiologist with Fentanyl during surgery (A friend of mine had a surgery and was administered fentanyl)

"We have found you to be a poor cultural fit in our mission driven high octane growth mindset 10x company. That we reached this conclusion right after you disclosed your medical condition is pure coincidence."

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by esikich » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:13 AM UTC

Arainach wrote: post #96

cmiles8 wrote: post #58

Keep work life and personal life separate. No exceptions. If a company tries to encourage you to do otherwise I’d strongly suggest you find a new employer.

Most people prefer to work with humans, not robots. Common experiences and getting to know people are a huge part of that. Sharing stories and getting to know people humanizes them. It's much easier to hate "that team in another country" you've never met than that person you've had a meal together with and learned about their hobbies.

Not to mention a lot of things get solved/decided over beers at happy hour. Coworkers shouldn't be your best friends but you're a fool if you're not friendly with them. Like you said, people aren't robots and a business isn't a machine.

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by laweijfmvo » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:13 AM UTC

  > Firing an employee for doing exactly what they were instructed to do during a mandatory retreat

So fired if you don’t play along, fired if you do.

Re: Netflix employee fired for sharing personal details in retreat trust exercise

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Post by chasd00 » Tue, Jul 28, 2026, 2:14 AM UTC

ab71e5 wrote: post #22

So he was fired for sharing he had ketamine based therapy for depression? Why? Like is it promoting drug use or something?

If HR policy says no drugs then that’s a wrap. Allowing an employee to violate HR policy probably puts the company in all sorts of legal risks.