Earlier quoted context omitted.
I feel like especially when someone is asking something from me, they sort of have an obligation to make it clear, early on, what they're actually asking for. Tangential but related; when I used to work for BigCo, I would get old acquaintances message me on LinkedIn. They would act like they're really interested in my life and I'd interact, and then after a day or two they would ask me for a referral for a job, I'd d…
That is the way to do it. And IMO it should extend to all business communication. I hate getting "hey" in my DMs with no other context. Like...."hey? whats up?". Just get to the point, the day is too busy for this.
When I message someone on Slack, I usually do something like "Hey! I was wondering if you could help me with..."
There's no need to add an extra blocking factor with this.
There's a manifesto for this: https://nohello.net/en/