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I was offered a job at Bloomberg in 2003, at a significantly better starting than $110k/yr, moving from Ann Arbor, MI. I did this math. So, three things: (1) I'll spare you yet another hypothetical family budget monthly itemization. (2) I'll concede that it is clearly possible to raise a family in New York on $110k/yr. (3) I'll assert again that it is not comfortable to raise a family in New York on $110k/yr, nor doe…
Could you define comfortable? I'm really curious to know what goods and services are beyond your reach at $110k/year. I've also done the math and lived it. Commuting from jersey is better, but even manhattan (north of 111'th st) is quite livable.
Aggressively assume $2500/mo to rent a house (forget buying). Assume part-time child care @ $900, commute @ $400, lowball utilities @ $500 (I pay more than that in Chicago), food @ $1000, car insurance for one car @ $200, and dependent health care at $150.
At $110k/yr, you're now less than $1000/mo over break-even. Lose an alternator in the car, you're in the red. Fill 3 cavities, you're in the red. Fly to Tucson for a funeral, you're in the red.
Can you do it? Yes. But I'm not going to call it easy.