> stems from living a life that is not true to myself and due to countless failed attempts to be someone I cannot never be.
If this is their mindset, they might benefit from CBT more than medication.
I'm not against SSRI at all. But after taking them for a few months in my 20's, and experiencing how terrible the withdrawal symptoms are when stopping, I'd be very hesitant to ever start up on them again. I remember having to open up the lowest dose pill capsule and splitting the dose into very tiny increments to be able to wean off completely.