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Not commenting about the ic/leo part specifically, but there is a pretty abundant body of work on what "normal" people are willing to do, as long as they find a way to rationalize it away. The banality of evil is well documented. In that light, what others would do is rarely a reliable indicator that you shouldn’t think twice about your actions, lest you regret later, once the thinking has happened.
I have no idea what any of this has to do with anything I just wrote, I'm sorry.
My point is that this fact shouldn’t belong in a discussion about ethics, given how often widely held moral positions have come to be a source of regret.