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Except colloquially no one today thinks the word has any bearing on whether the victim looks bad. It just means they're responsible for the act. I guess some people take comfort in the idea that suicide is thrust on people and they take no responsibility for their actions.
Healthy, sane people in good situations don't kill themselves. It follows from that fact that if someone kills themselves, at least one of those things was not true. And those things can and often are thrust on people, or at least occur against the will of the person. In this case, a bad situation was thrust on a whole bunch of people, and it ended up killing some of them.
Correct. This has no bearing.
> it ended up killing some of them.
No, and it's irresponsible and unhelpful to act like agency and choice is not part of the equation. As if to say that basically everyone chooses the same way (euthanasia) in the face of terminal illness, or depression.
Tautologically, if you want to convey that help is out there and that a better life is possible, then you're saying people have a choice to make.