> But it still feels like some key ingredient is missing.
Continuous training is the key ingredient. Humans can use existing knowledge and apply it to new scenarios, and so can most AI. But AI cannot permanently remember the result of its actions in the real world, and so its body of knowledge cannot expand.
Take a toddler and an oven. The toddler has no concept of what an oven is other than maybe that it smells nice. The toddler will touch the oven, notice that it experiences pain (because the oven is hot) and learn that oven = danger. Place a current AI in a droid toddler body? It will never learn and keep touching the oven as soon as the information of "oven = danger" is out of the context window.
For some cases this inability to learn is actually desirable. You don't want anyone and everyone to be able to train ChatGPT unsupervised, otherwise you get 4chan flooding it with offensive crap like they did to Tay [1], but for AI that physically interacts with the meatspace, constant evaluation and learning is all but mandatory if it is to safely interact with its surroundings. "Dumb" robots run regular calibration cycles for their limbs to make sure they are still aligned to compensate for random deviations, and so will AI robots.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tay_(chatbot)