Metabolism of autism reveals developmental origins

The article says:

> For the majority of people with ASD, the condition is a significant disability, with only 10–20% of children diagnosed before 5 years of age able to live independently as adults.

My children (15 and 10) are learning about themselves but they haven't found an advantage of their autism yet.

But, we function well enough, I can hold down jobs and so will they, it's a set of things we're not good at but we can deal.

The severe cases I know, I have never heard them utter a word, or leave the house on their own. They live in a world inside their heads. I really can't see what they have as the same as what I have.

I've also gone into autism communities before and declared that I had self-undiagnosed myself with autism, which is something I've desired recently, to re-diagnose myself as not being autistic and either having nothing or ADHD. This was totally rejected, and repeatedly brought up was my admittance to a lengthy period of diagnosis, overseen my multiple doctors, from a very young age, which all were seen as evidence of the validity of my diagnosis (conversely, I'd presume, they treat the opposite as more less valid or invalid). Interestingly the same people generally accepted diagnosis, but to reject a diagnosis, well that was beyond the pale and denialism. I brought up the same to a psychiatrist, saying I wanted to be treated by a psychiatrist for ADHD and NOT autism because I believe it will lead to superior outcomes. They blew me off, exasperated, saying that any psychiatrist would simply observe my symptoms and deem me autistic and treat me that way no matter what I did, denying that I even had the capability or possibility to receive treatment which was not based on the premise that I was autistic. Metabolic testing and self-diagnosis be damned.

Just this moment I'm in the process of seeking accommodations. I self reported autistic symptoms to my employer. In the past, during interviews they have accepted my diagnosis and pledged to "accommodate" me accordingly, and I was ticked off as a diversity hire. They asked me to verify such symptoms with a doctor. They subsequently said they reserve the right to an independent psychological assessment of myself or my records. This is very pleasing to me, as either I shall receive accommodations and an affirmation that I am autistic, or my undiagnosis, which is truly a win-win.

If I was in family court, and it was argued that I was unable to say take care of children because I'm autistic, I could not successfully object on the grounds that "I'm not autistic".

Yet my observation is what is considered the true measure of somebodies autisticness, the validity of their diagnosis and their symptoms, is independent psychological assessments by an examiner not beholden to your own self-assessment. I theorise this is both because of a lack of faith in the competence of either of us to assess an autism diagnosis, as well as a lack of faith in our objectivity. I've met a number of self-diagnosed people who are shy about disclosure or asking for accommodation BECAUSE they are self-diagnosed, and while obviously believing in the reality of their autism, are either self-sceptical or believe in others scepticism to a degree not commonly seen in those medically diagnosed.

I don't mean to be exclusionary or gatekeeping, just descriptive of what I believe to be social/political/legal/scientific reality. I don't like that things are this way, I'm aware that hilariously I've never seen ANY evidence that suggests physician diagnosis is more accurate than self-diagnosis, I'm aware of the many historical problems with physician diagnosis, I merely believe that they ARE this way.

But I do not believe they were as common prior to the 1960s as they are in the 2020s.