I can't help, but just wanted to wish you well. If you haven't already you need to reach out to literally everyone you know. Old colleagues might be able to get you some work. Friends and family might be willing to give you somewhere to stay for a bit. You're clearly a smart guy. You'll work this out. Just hold in there.
Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
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Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
#52Earlier quoted context omitted.
What kind of red flags?
> They tried to build their product from it and I wasn't able to tolerate that If I heard this while I was interviewing a candidate, I would write a note to myself: "Be prepared for more of this." > I also brought up the fact I had security concerns in regards to their systems when I went in person but that was brushed aside/ignored If I heard this while I was interviewing a candidate, I would wonder whether they lac…
I agree with you, I wasn't able to provide the full story due to the HN character limit. The contract I signed when I took up work with them explicitly stated my public work will remain mine. If that wasn't in the contract I would have said no. As I put it, it might not be a great look. Thanks for bringing that up
> If I heard this while I was interviewing a candidate, I would wonder whether they lacked awareness of the need to follow established processes.
I agree, there probably is an established process I should have spent time looking into rather than raising the issue directly with the staff who work at the place/with the system itself. Like I said, I was a bit frustrated but it's definitely possible I could have brought that up in a more productive way
> So there's at least one occasion when the person had a break from reality, leading to them being kicked out of a house. I know it's important to avoid stigmatizing those with mental illness, but the person has indicated that they had a bad experience with treatment and are not currently in treatment, so it would not be unreasonable to expect that this psychosis could occur again.
That was my first and so far only episode of psychosis, from my point of view it wasn't so much a bad experience with treatment. But a bad experience by nearly ending up homeless after due to my family kicking me out after I stabilized in the hospital/received/participated in treatment for my first ever episode of psychosis.
> Not exactly legal or ethical. Obviously, they're facing dire circumstances, which might mitigate their culpability, but would you want to hire someone who uses social engineering to deceive people?
I lied about being a visitor compared to the very real alternative of freezing to death, shoot me lol
> Again, they're facing dire circumstances, which might mitigate their culpability, but they're also being quite open about being willing to steal, which is not exactly a desirable trait for most employers.
I somewhat agree, I'm not proud of stealing food and I have already went to a foodbank/received $27 to buy some food but that unfortunately only lasted a few days and I started getting hungry again/haven't been able to find more support for food since. Although maybe I should just try harder. Either way, thanks for bringing up that broadcasting that is a red flag, that is something I should be a bit more wary of, I've made a mental note of that but I doubt I'll need it once I get back on my feet
Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
#53I did the following for ~9 years. 0. Find someplace warmer and milder. CA coast between Los Angeles and San Diego. 1. Waterproof dry bags for electronics with desiccants. Beware taking cold electronics into warm rooms because that equals condensation, shorts, and/or corrosion. 2. Live in a vehicle, preferably a small RV and somewhere not adverse to vehicle dwelling. 3. Focus on what clients want specifically, not all…
Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
#54Send me a cv at my username on gmail please.
Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
#55Earlier quoted context omitted.
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Sorry, I wrote 8000+ characters the first time but HN limits the character count on text posts. I'd be happy to add some more details here as I think you raise some great points! I'd tend to agree with you for most things but let me clear up a few things too :) > there's an undercurrent of "the world is out to get me personally" to it. Everything bad happens to him, he's not responsible for anything that may have put…
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#56Earlier quoted context omitted.
Sorry, I wrote 8000+ characters the first time but HN limits the character count on text posts. I'd be happy to add some more details here as I think you raise some great points! I'd tend to agree with you for most things but let me clear up a few things too :) > there's an undercurrent of "the world is out to get me personally" to it. Everything bad happens to him, he's not responsible for anything that may have put…
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Where did I claim I was "forced" to see them? I was seeking help/support with my mental health so I asked a psychiatrist I trusted for advice. What would you recommend doing for someone in a position like mine? You throw a whole lot of accusations around but seem to offer very little practical advice lol
> left as soon as he learned they were an astrologist rather than giving them a chance.
I also don't think I claimed this but feel free to quote where I perhaps miscommunicated this. I actually kept seeing them probably far longer than I should have because I grew attached to them/learned to trust them depsite them very likely not being a great choice for me and for improving my mental health.
> not gaining access to anything anyone really cares about
No shit sherlock, but if you don't lie about being a visitor you'll get kicked out right away
This clearly isn't going to be a productive conversation and you've made it obvious you have no knowledge or interest in offering any sort of practical advice for someone experiencing hardship, however you're very good at being demeaning, insulting, and rude so I guess this will be my last reply to you. Good luck with your life, and once again, I really do hope you don't experience much hardship in life and if you do, hopefully someone offers you some practical advice/kindness rather than being shitty and demeaning towards you
Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
#57I did the following for ~9 years. 0. Find someplace warmer and milder. CA coast between Los Angeles and San Diego. 1. Waterproof dry bags for electronics with desiccants. Beware taking cold electronics into warm rooms because that equals condensation, shorts, and/or corrosion. 2. Live in a vehicle, preferably a small RV and somewhere not adverse to vehicle dwelling. 3. Focus on what clients want specifically, not all…
I agree with the contracting advice, but without a decent network of contacts, a track history and reputation, anyone will find it tough to get contract/freelance work. Especially now with so many Americans laid off from tech jobs trying to do the same thing.
There's nothing about an LLC that make it easier for large clients to pay you. Freelancers can work as sole proprietors and get a business bank account. I've freelanced for a long time and never had a problem getting paid, or had to form an LLC or corporation to look more real or get paid. The big problem with getting paid in this case is not having an American Social Security Number for tax reporting (1099). An LLC will allow hiding that problem for a while, but then you can add tax evasion or fraud to the immigration violations.
Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
#58Earlier quoted context omitted.
What kind of red flags?
> They tried to build their product from it and I wasn't able to tolerate that If I heard this while I was interviewing a candidate, I would write a note to myself: "Be prepared for more of this." > I also brought up the fact I had security concerns in regards to their systems when I went in person but that was brushed aside/ignored If I heard this while I was interviewing a candidate, I would wonder whether they lac…
I would give kudos for honesty
Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
#59Maybe try to go back to the company interested in your AGPL project? Giving them full rights is way better than being homeless
Don't do this. It's better than starving to death, freezing to death, or being destitute the rest of your life, but subjectively, and objectively based on the comments, you'll find a way through, those aren't even close to likely outcomes. I don't know how to say this in a convincing way, but, you only have one chance to either affirm your values or discard them. Sort of a "better to fight standing than die on your k…
Re: Ask HN: How to survive as a homeless programmer in the winter (AB, Canada)?
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Don't do this. It's better than starving to death, freezing to death, or being destitute the rest of your life, but subjectively, and objectively based on the comments, you'll find a way through, those aren't even close to likely outcomes. I don't know how to say this in a convincing way, but, you only have one chance to either affirm your values or discard them. Sort of a "better to fight standing than die on your k…
What? OP can create new projects... If alive and not homeless.
It's also a false dichotomy and I'd wager things aren't going to get better when they go to ask for their job back, even if they got it back.