I'm not going to worry too much about my career being snuffed out by AI until AI actually exists. Right now we have LLMs and they're a very far cry from any form of AI that could replace a software engineer wholesale. In my little corner of the software engineering universe I have not seen any credible hiring manager say they were going to fire developers and replace them with LLMs (I have seen this threat from one or two of the
least credible and
least successful hiring managers I know, which I think speaks volumes).
Here is what I would worry about, as a software engineer if you are not using an LLM as part of your workflow and using it well, yeah you may ultimately lose your job and you may even deserve to lose it. Despite their flaws they're immensely powerful simply because they represent a whole new class of tooling. The tools in this industry change all the time and you never get to stop learning, this is just another example.
But how someone could look at all this and have it factor into their decisions about whether to have children... is beyond me. I think that person has to be living in the realm of speculative fiction, not in the present material universe. We don't have AI. We don't really have a clear path to the general AI that would be a thing you could just swap in for a random employee. I don't know who this chick is who wrote this article, I hate to throw shade but she's like a young mother who thinks about things and is worried? What is her specific experience with hiring and with AI? "Fire and replace with AI" is not a real hiring trend.
I don't even think the software industry as we know it is under threat... I think LLMs might 10x our productivity when we iron out the kinks but the demand for more software in the world will simply grow with them. I am referring to Marc Andreessen's observation about a decade ago that "software is eating the world," this is still the case, there is no sign that the demand for software is declining, if anything it's increasing, so if we learn to make software cheaper with robot helpers it's unlikely the dev job market is going to be decimated (sure maybe it could stagnate but a job market in the doldrums is hardly a reason to not have a kid or the start of the apocalypse).