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That's the thing, I absolutely don't want to do a bunch of tiny tweaks. I want to write (react) code. For me personally I feel like tweaking an IDE gets in the way of that. Yet I can take a clean install of lazyvim, use mason to install the react language server, and install copilot, and then I can immediately start working. And so that's what I actually do, and I find that to be much more pleasant (and lightweight)…
Then you musta accept suboptimal UX. Its one way to live your life.
Just because you have a bunch of custom quirks doesn't mean that I do.