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Are / were they really 'friends' though if doing so obliterated your connections? Most people tend to misclassify being friends with being open & friendly with another.
There’s nothing wrong with having acquaintances that aren’t close friends though. I always see this argument and don’t get it. Yea, my “true” friends will contact me anywhere, but it’s nice to have a small network of people I know that I can invite to stuff or even better yet invite me to events and activities. They may also become close friends at some point.
Internet misanthropes contributing to the trend for people to lose friends and acquaintances as they age.