Live data from Hacker News

Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

news.ycombinator.com

511–520 of 585 posts

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#511

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Once you learn that parables may exist and are never literal, but can still impart wisdom, it makes more sense.

Religion wouldn't be a problem if people understood the difference between descriptive and prescriptive text. Churches don't teach this.

The fundamentalists don't teach it, many do.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#512
post #268

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>In many places it is just a pure scam Seems a pretty overly strong statement, no? Is there any research in to percentage of non profit efforts that are/aren't legitimate? Can you elaborate on "what I saw then" that made you think it was indicative of the entire idea of volunteer work? I have had the opposite experience. All the best people in the world I've met have been volunteering for one thing or another. As a y…

> Can you elaborate on "what I saw then" that made you think it was indicative of the entire idea of volunteer work? Yes, I was looking to do international volunteer work and used the internet to search for opportunities, since I knew nobody with experience. Fully willing to pay for my own travels of course. All I could find was programs where you had to pay thousands of dollars, your own food and your own board in o…

Very interesting. Sorry you had such an unfortunate experience. I'm realizing now how lucky I was to have been introduced to all the groups I have been by real members of the local groups. With the type of opportunity you were looking for makes a lot of sense why you found what you did. I have not touched any large scale international groups (couple branches of larger orgs were just ok) really and maybe that's the difference. Either way, I'm sorry you weren't able to find volunteer work. It has helped me immensely and I hope one day you can benefit from it should circumstance allow.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#513
post #268

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>In many places it is just a pure scam Seems a pretty overly strong statement, no? Is there any research in to percentage of non profit efforts that are/aren't legitimate? Can you elaborate on "what I saw then" that made you think it was indicative of the entire idea of volunteer work? I have had the opposite experience. All the best people in the world I've met have been volunteering for one thing or another. As a y…

>Seems a pretty overly strong statement, no? No. You're assuming every place and organization on the PLANET is like the one where you volunteer at. it's not.

>You're assuming every place and organization on the planet is like the one you volunteer at

Not really, but I did, perhaps naively, think at least a better percentage as earnest than the other commenter was giving credit for. You're right though, after reading his detailed response I do realize now I've been very lucky in how I came to do what I do with who I do it with.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#514

It’s not been mentioned yet, but if you play music then going to jam sessions is a great way to meet people. You’re all on a journey together toward improving as musicians which helps things to gel. As a jazz musician I can find a jam session in pretty much any city I go to. If you don’t play you can always go just to listen, watch and be inspired

+1

Not a jazz guy, but open mics are a good way to meet people

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#516

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Yeah, like a room in the back specifically for crying babies (and their families).

How much extra per long-haul airplane ticket would you pay for this? I'd gladly add 20% minimum.

When my first child was born, he didn't cry and had to spend the beginning of his life in the NICU. When he first cried, after having his life saved by doctors, so did I.

I love the sound of crying babies. It means they're okay enough to cry.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#517
I started running about 10 years ago, and joined some local run groups. A few of them will do a run and then go out for a beer afterwards. I've made some good friends there, and we do things outside of running.

Same with cycling - I started cycling a few years ago and meet up with some cycling groups and we do rides together.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#518

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Based and grill-pilled. We've been doing the same. I recently have gotten into brisket smoking, and for the last few weekends, my wife and kids have been out in the yard every Saturday all day smoking meats. At night we offer some to everybody who walks by. It's really been nice.

Ah hell yea, smoked meats. Are you a fellow enjoyer of Sweet Baby Rays too?

I keep a bottle in the fridge just in case Mark comes over.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#519

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Religion wouldn't be a problem if people understood the difference between descriptive and prescriptive text. Churches don't teach this.

The fundamentalists don't teach it, many do.

I was involved in multiple churches for over 20 years, none of them taught it, none were fundamentalists.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

#520

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Would JW like to outlaw transfusions? Like, do many of them believe it should be illegal, like many catholics believe birth control should be illegal?

No, we don't impose our beliefs on others, and we stay out of all politics. We respect everyone's right to choose for themselves.

Ah thanks, didn't realize JW do not vote! Interesting!
Post reply on HN