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>If you're unhappy, make different choices. This sentiment is often on display here and alway out of touch with reality. Plenty of people will never have the right opportunities, no matter their effort, to make any choice they want to put themselves in any social/wealth class of their choice. This sentiment is the modern equivalent of "let them eat cake".
But there are other costs associated with that, especially for those with family/support network in an area.