It's okay; software engineering isn't real either. (In many countries, the word "engineer" is regulated -- you can't call yourself an engineer without professional qualifications and oversight.) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Regulation_and_licensure_in_...
But how most of the sotfware done, is not really engineered.
And I think we might do better if we were more rigorous with what is being build, probably slower, but better off and lot of it could be replicated for close enough use cases.