I'll push back on that.
In those two applications I joined failing projects that really were a "big ball of mud" and got them working. I didn't just figure out a working solution to the async updating problem, I became intimately familiar with seductive non-solutions.
The problem with the discussion about React is that 99% of the use cases of React don't need to be an SPA. If it's possible to SSR your application you don't need React! Those applications I worked on were dramatically more complex than today's SPA because they needed to be SPAs!
Back in the 1990s people would define a web form in a static HTML page and then write a separate CGI script to handle the form. If there was an error in handling the form the CGI script was unable to redraw the form with an error message and the values filled in because the CGI script didn't contain the form.
Around 2000 or so people realized the answer to this was for the form to drawn by the same script as the form handler, and the script would choose to either draw the form or the next thing after the form based on the inputs it received. Ruby on Rails institutionalized this around 2005 and misappropriated the name "model-view-controller" for this.
Not long after 2010, for reasons I still don't entirely understand, the web design shops in my county transitioned from successfully writing quality RoR apps to attempting to write "simple" Angular apps. How to do error handling for forms on the server side got forgotten like the formula for Damascus steel and instead people started writing SPAs to do what would have been a trivial task in a server-side application except now the application is "a tiny pebble orbiting a supermassive black hole made out of dark matter".
People who are happy with today's SPA frameworks are happy because they are developing applications that don't need to be an SPA. Once you get into the range of applications that really need an SPA they let you down.