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I usually know what I'm about to actually say very shortly before I say it. This has occasionally led to emergency course corrections. But I do sense the "shape" of a sentence well before I say it. I think there's something like a stage design in the brain: - symbolic or model deliberation - verbal expression - vocalization And each of those stages can be consciously introspected on, but people will naturally develop…
I don't think you are right. I experience the same feeling of focusing on an idea but not having a fixed idea what exactly I'll say, but I can also prepare full sentences if I want to. It's just most of the time I make an effort to put my brain in speech-autopilot mode. I think in fact it's harder to let yourself be lead by it without consciously introspecting, at least I find I'm able to discuss way quicker as I can…
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[Conceptual stage] --??-- consciousness
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[Verbalization stage] --??-- consciousness
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So if you don't have conscious access to verbalization, you only realize how a thought "will sound" after you say it. Conversely, if you don't have conscious access to conceptualization, you end up thinking that "thinking" always involves "thinking out loud", because "thinking out loud" (verbalizing) is the only way you have to query your conceptual layer. You literally only become aware of your own thinking after the thought is already pretty far along. At the extreme, you can have conscious access to neither stage and require vocalization to reflect on your own thinking.