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So, COM?
Sorry, does anyone mind to explain/reference what COM is?
1. A standardization of vtables and how to obtain/query them from objects.
2. A standardized memory management protocol based on reference counting.
3. A standardized type description/reflection IDL and binary data format, so dynamic languages can reflect objects to learn what methods/properties/events they support.
4. A standardized protocol for dynamically invoking methods and properties by string and using variant types, for scripting languages again.
5. A whole lot of machinery for auto-generating implementations of dynamic method dispatch for objects written in C++/Pascal/C#/etc.
6. A way to load/dynamically link against objects by UUID instead of library name. In COM the actual location and name of a shared library is (in theory) unimportant.
7. A way to "activate" objects either in-process, which is basically a wrapper around dynamic library loading, or out-of-process, in which case Windows starts an EXE that then exposes objects as a server using RPC.
8. A way to do OOP RPC on objects over the network or a process boundary (DCOM).
9. A protocol for negotiating UI embeddings (OLE) so one component could contribute menus and toolbars that would get merged with the host program's UI.
And a lot more stuff that I've probably forgotten.
It's really a very feature complete and powerful framework for solving common problems you face when writing software made up on components written in different languages and by different teams. For example, an advanced use of COM is to run some objects at one privilege level and others at lower privilege levels. Installers/updaters often do this so the GUI runs as the user, and the engine runs as an administrator.
Most platforms (except the web) have something vaguely COM-like or COM inspired. Apple's stack uses MIG, Mach ports and Objective-C for similar purposes. Linux never really did but the closest equivalent is DBUS. Android has the Binder.
COM doesn't get much use these days outside a few stock use cases because other platforms never implemented it, so modern devs (web+mobile) aren't familiar with it and so we are now seeing a new generation 'rediscover' parts of it in the context of WASM, thinking it's new. However in its heydey COM was ubiquitous. There were large markets of components for sale, distributed in binary form and written in/for many different languages. COM stood in the middle making it all work. It was one reason that Windows was relatively language neutral and friendly to language innovation. In comparison other platforms are quite language and binding unfriendly.