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> because otherwise the reason we're free to exist is because species like us always wipe themselves out before they spread That's a complete non-sequitur. There can be plenty of reasons for a species like us never appearing on the first place, and they are way more reasonable than postulating that life like us always destroy itself.
We are actually running out of places in our history to fit a great filter. Most of the events in our evolution seem probable, even inevitable. In fact the only place IMO that's really left is the emergence of the first self replicating RNA molecule. But even that seems too probable to be a great filter. And if its not behind us, it has to be in-front of us or we are under a great misapprehension about the nature of…
Other than the obvious, which is the utter physical, technological, economic, political, biological, and statistical impracticality of interstellar colonization.