The Fermi paradox is good for a nice chat at a party. But it's not a paradox at all. Imagine there's an alien civilization in our galactic neighbor Proxima Centauri. How would we know they are there? To make it more plausible. Let's say we figure out a way to send a space probe to Proxima Centauri. How do we communicate with that probe? Easy, you say, just like we communicate with the Voyagers: they point a reasonabl…
We might be able to see their drive plumes if they use some of the theoretical high performance reactive drives we know of on big crafy. Eq. various fusion plasma drives, Orion, Nuclear Salt Water Rocket release so ludicrous ammounts of energy that they might be visible over interstellar distances, especially if pointed in our general direction when running. Massive solar sails as well would be very very big and very…
See here for a list with images to understand the level of detail we're getting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_directly_imaged_exopla...
I'd think you can easily have galaxy-hopping civilizations that would still be orders of magnitude less noticeable than these planets.