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Ask HN: Have you ever considered leaving tech because you didn’t feel fulfilled?

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Re: Ask HN: Have you ever considered leaving tech because you didn’t feel fulfilled?

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Ultimately, satisfaction cannot be achieved only by what you do. If you are called to leave then leave graciously and on good terms. But know if your fulfillment in life is solely tied to your occupation it will always feel empty. You need to feel that hole with something greater than your work. Don't take my word for it. Study something written by the wisest man of the world. Ecclesiastes.

I am a believer and I agree with you on this. However, I still think that there is a certain amount of fulfillment that we're supposed to get from working.

Re: Ask HN: Have you ever considered leaving tech because you didn’t feel fulfilled?

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It really depends what you're working on. If you go to a one product company you'll be stuck forever improving it. In other niches, for example embedded-ish, you can have multiple solutions churning the customer's bits in production in just a couple years.

And then component changes and interop issues force you to recall in excruciating detail that project you were “done with.”

Yea but with a bit of luck it will feel like a new project ;)

Re: Ask HN: Have you ever considered leaving tech because you didn’t feel fulfilled?

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I built a fence around my yard a few years ago and got more satisfaction out of looking at that physical manifestation of work every day than I was getting from my day job. Fence builders probably feel good when they do something outside of their comfort zone, though, so I think it's just a condition of being human.

I agree. I'm most satisfied when I get something done and acquire a new skill in the process. It doesn't really matter whether it's in software, math, cooking, writing, etc. David Foster Wallace wrote about something similar, about how it's not really about the pursuit itself but overcoming the self:

"Schtitt’s thrust, and his one great irresistible attraction in the eyes of Mario’s late father: The true opponent, the enfolding boundary, is the player himself. Always and only the self out there, on court, to be met, fought, brought to the table to hammer out terms. The competing boy on the net’s other side: he is not the foe: he is more the partner in the dance. He is the what is the word excuse or occasion for meeting the self. As you are his occasion. Tennis’s beauty’s infinite roots are self-competitive. You compete with your own limits to transcend the self in imagination and execution. Disappear inside the game: break through limits: transcend: improve: win. Which is why tennis is an essentially tragic enterprise, to improve and grow as a serious junior, with ambitions. You seek to vanquish and transcend the limited self whose limits make the game possible in the first place. It is tragic and sad and chaotic and lovely. All life is the same, as citizens of the human State: the animating limits are within, to be killed and mourned, over and over again."

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Engineers weren’t paid until 2000. Early in my career, I switched to marketing (1983). The problem was, it was repetitive, and ultimately boring. But it paid the bills way better 1983-2000. I switched back to engineering in 2000. It had the same EXACT difficulties as in 1983: assholes who felt contempt for “the details” and were invited to meetings you weren’t. It was actually even worse! Now the assholes were 20 yea…

TBH, I don't feel we really got paid until about 2012 or so- or at least it did not reach me (on the east coast around NYC) until then. I spent the first ten years of my career lamenting my choice, for the amount of effort, both mental and number of hours, it took to do the job, while my business-oriented peers in college were doing well but seemed to never have to work on a weekend or miss a happy hour/dinner. Until…

It's 2022, and we're still not getting paid. For any engineer you can find an executive in marketing or sales who is paid better.

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I'm probably off-base here because I'm told i conflate woodworking and carpentry a lot, but isn't it a fairly well-paying profession?

I know of a guy who makes kitchens. Works three or four days a week, clears 300-500k a year. But he’s a business - decades of experience and contacts and happy referring customers, a lot of money invested in equipment, and big upfront investment in materials for each job.

Looking at the current trend of completely unacceptably shitty work in new construction, if you do quality work on time and on budget you'll have infinite amounts of work just by word of mouth advertising.

The old adage over here goes "If you find a reliable electrician/plumber/handyman, hold on to them and take care of them. You can always find a new partner, but a reliable construction person is a rare find."

Re: Ask HN: Have you ever considered leaving tech because you didn’t feel fulfilled?

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Inb4 "No way I am just sooo fulfilled by improving ad targeting on a social media website."

Are you possibly projecting...? I have so many options in tech that I've never had to consider anything even close to ad targeting and/or social media work.

Not even a little. Never worked on that crap and never intend to. Just making fun of the typical HN Google/Meta/Twitter/etc sycophants.

Re: Ask HN: Have you ever considered leaving tech because you didn’t feel fulfilled?

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My fulfillment comes from what I'm using the technology to do, not the technology used to do it (so long as we're not being stupid in our technology stack). Right now I work for a large, American electric utility company. I'm building tools to help customers manage their generation from their solar panels and optimize their costs for charging their EV's. The technology isn't sexy, certainly nothing anybody here on HN would get all excited about, but it's having a huge impact on our customers and I go home with the feeling I'm doing some good in my corner of the world.

Re: Ask HN: Have you ever considered leaving tech because you didn’t feel fulfilled?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I know of a guy who makes kitchens. Works three or four days a week, clears 300-500k a year. But he’s a business - decades of experience and contacts and happy referring customers, a lot of money invested in equipment, and big upfront investment in materials for each job.

Looking at the current trend of completely unacceptably shitty work in new construction, if you do quality work on time and on budget you'll have infinite amounts of work just by word of mouth advertising. The old adage over here goes "If you find a reliable electrician/plumber/handyman, hold on to them and take care of them. You can always find a new partner, but a reliable construction person is a rare find."

That’s probably not a new trend. All shoddy old builds will be gone by definition
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